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As you may guess from the name, I have an interest in Shibari and Kinbaku, forms of Japanese bondage.  The person I'd like to practice that with will be smart, submissive during a scene but not necessarily in daily life and be willing and able to tell me her own needs and limits as a  sub.

I really enjoy a good scene, I do some internet and phone stuff since I moved, and I try hard to make it dirty, fun and erotic.  It's important for me to be able to talk to my sub and know what she is into and is not into.  If you have a hard time doing this, we're not a good match, I'm afraid.

Being a Master has a lot of responsibility associated with it.  I'm not at a place in my life where I can be a 24/7 Master, nor am I looking for that.  I am willing to take the responsibility (and pleasure) of running scenes and doing internet or phone chat.

Furthermore, there is a lot to be enjoyed that is not scene based.  I love talking about BDSM, and I am also looking for intelligent, intellectual conversation partners on this site. 

Beyond that, I am new in the LA area and would enjoy meeting interesting people active in the lifestyle for purely platonic activities.

My hard limits which I will not do are:  Piss/scat, anything illegal, anything involving anyone under 18 (anathama to me!) Anything permanently harming the physical or mental body of a person.   Finally, I will not upload a photograph as BDSM is widely misunderstood and my career (and rent payments!) could suffer.  I can be fired for breathing wrong.

So, if you are a smart sub who knows what she wants, enjoys a creative, stern master in a scene but not 24/7, and either live in the LA area or are into phone chatting, please feel free to contact me.

princessee
 
 Age: 45
 Wellington, New Zealand