Collarspace.com

i'm very 'nervously cautious', looking at many profiles but msging few... i read profiles and don't msg those who i don't thin would be interested in me or (rightfully) have something i think disqualifies me. That is just respect on my part.

As for what follows: i know i haven't put much here before but time has come for me to say a few words on what DOESN'T appeal and/or attract me...  Please forgive me for having to be so blunt but, recent msgs from folks who don't understand just force this.

first... the profile says LESBIAN for a reason. if you were born with a penis (even if it has been removed), please just move on. If you are the sub/slave part of a couple (and SHE is the dominant one) then i would love to talk with HER, not you.

For those who are not burdened with that "WHY" chromosone, please be something resembling HT/WT proportionate. You don't have to be heroine-addict model skinny and a women with "some weight" can be a delight to worship.  BUT, women who are overly-large or actually look like a guy are not for this one.

Please, no one who
- smokes (of anything)
- otherwise uses tobacco
- drinks excessively (or gets involved while impaired)
- does any kind of mind altering substance (any use of illegals or misuse/abuse of legals).
- Have some disease
- Have a nick that is some shade of blue/purple (instead of pink or red).

THose who i have already been chatting with in msgs, please don't take this as a 'get lost', i am still wanting to chat.

thank you,
kimmy
7/18/2007 9:35:49 AM
I would like to thank everyone I've been hearing from lately.  Your words of kindess and encouragement have been very sweet.

Yes virginia, there are real people on collarme and they do speak to others.

sweet kisses,
kimmy.
7/1/2007 11:33:28 PM
First journal entry cuz' i just had to talk about this one.

i get a msg from someone with a light blue handle. the profile says "gay dominant trans"! what part of "not born with a penis" didn't this person understand?  i did give them the courtesy of looking at their profile and, if this ain't some guy i don't know what to say.

They msg me "hi there" (yes that's it) while i'm not on and then 2 1/2 hrs later re-msg me saying merely "no chat"?  WTF!  i WASN'T ON!

so, i reply back to the person that my profile says "les-be-an" and i don't want men or trans.  Their lame answer is "i am a female who dates females so i believe that makes me a lesbian"... dude, if your a "gay trans" that looks more masculine than the average guy... that falls under "born with a penis" and not under "lesbian female."

Sorry charlie.

On a MUCH brighter note, a few very lovely Ladies have msg'd me saying They would like to chat about a online/long-distance relationship.  W00T some nice people!  now i just have to compose that special reply and see if this was meant to be.

Thank You Ladies for brining back this one's smile!

kimmy
slaverebecca4u
 
 Age: 30
 Louisville, Kentucky