Must be local to the DC/MD/VA area, have no kids under 21, and live alone. Exceptions are made for roommates who are covered in fur and like to do tricks in exchange for being called a very good boy or girl. I'm not interested in pen pals or hypothetical travel workarounds.

 

Must be 35 to 55. No, we're not going to have much in common if you're a retiree living in a fantasy where women half your age are eagerly waiting to dominate you for your AARP benefits.

 

Please have your own social life outside of your partner and hobbies that you would like to eventually share. This life is the only one we have and I can't develop excitement for someone who spends all their free time daydreaming about sex acts. I'm interested in hearing what brings you joy and excitement.

 

I'm roughly 70% soft, 30% hard. I demand respect and do well with men who feel that should be a scale we both work to keep balanced regardless of power play. If you need to be degraded or humiliated, find someone else.

 

I take care of my body and you need to as well if you expect me to be attracted to it. Mentally, I'm aroused by articulate, self-assured men who are curious and compassionate about life beyond their own parameters. Maybe you've found your purpose in life independently but have noticed the fruit tastes sweeter and sun rises brighter when you have someone challenging you to remain humble.

 

In person I prefer getting to know someone in the context of traditional dating. Drinks at a neutral location and involvement of kinks down the line if I decide that's what I want and if you have interest in joining me.

In my down time I enjoy reading fiction, trying new recipes (or eating your cooking instead), interior decor, crafting, latex fashion, and going on long walks in the woods in cold weather.