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when it says bisexual i find myself far more interested in women than men, but occasionally there is a man that can catch my interest, but only of rare and exceptional caliber. i am not looking to jump into anything committed as i have trust issues. regardless i am curious to learn and experience more. in the past i have switched with partners for whom i was passionate and comfortable with but i do not feel that i am experienced enough to just start off with someone in a dominant role. there is a level of anonymity that i would like to maintain on such a public site as this, ergo a less than pristine image de moi. note i do not have "anything special" to offer those seeking a woman with something "extra". i am comfortable with surgeries and have had a few so that i might feel more like the person i always felt i was. you might find that unlike some transwomen i do not have hangups in regards to either gender or sexual orientation. at the same time i do not want to waste time with anyone that isn't comfortable with a transperson. i find that people like that tend to have either phobias or hang ups regarding gender or orientation. i am a human before i am a gender. if i had to pick one gender it would be none of the above or possibly a small bit of all of the above, however more oft than not my feminine qualities prevail, thus the reason why i transitioned from androgyny to here.  genderqueer is not my style and in day to day life most people just see me as another woman.

5/22/2009 10:58:47 PM there i think i finally have put together a fairly balanced "about me" profile section.

5/22/2009 10:43:20 PM a journal, wow, i have never been very good at these. they always feel like a final exam with very open ended essay style questions, but missing the question.  why would i feel i have to give answers in a journal? i find psychology very interesting but i have to recommend to others also curious about it not to self-analyze, it is seriously not a good idea.