Yet another poor experience through e-mail. I think we sometimes need to write, step back and then re-read the message we are sending, including previous messages. Whether it's to meet someone or just to meet expectations.
I know a number of us have very detailed profiles and/or instructions and someone writing should take the time to read and perhaps re-read the details in those messages. I know it's not always easy to tell a game player or on-line fantasy seeker from someone who is really trying but either didn't understand correctly or didn't have the right information to make good as delivered, but I think we still should at least look to see what lead to this IF they are still communicating and not trying to drag things out (like keep putting off meeting or responses when promised).
Life can get in the way and I extend that courtesy before blocking or considering flaming them back (Never done that before, even though it may be warranted).
I never thought there was an excuse short of an accident for not making a meeting and communicating that you can't. I still think if someone forgets an apology is necessary even if there is/should be no further chance given to meet again. |