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Greetings,
I am a single Dominant male. I am a near lifetime professional. I seek something extremely rare, though I do ponder why it is rare. If I never find it, let it be so. If you are the one, then you will be cherished beyond comprehension.
It is common for Dominants to lay out their expectations for their sub(s). I will put a twist on my expectations, and let you know in advance that I meet every single one of these expectations. If you fail any of these criteria, we are not and never will be a match.
The person I am seeking seeks one lifetime partner. Life is short and I do not want to waste a shred of it on a maybe or good enough for now deal. You can translate that requirement into a general approach to life itself. You are focused on the goals important to you.
This person has unquestionable character. Lies or deception even by means of omission or any failure to establish truth to any person much less me are grounds for immediate termination. The person I seek has long ago embraced the value of the truth.
The character spoken of above is subtle, no need to flaunt or prove ones self in the wake of a life lived honestly for such a long period of time before meeting me. I will not question your character, I will know it very very soon after meeting with you.
While this lifestyle is abundant of those who seek poly-amorous states of existence, this is not my way. I have no need for clubs, demonstrations, or other such things. This is a private arrangement between me and my other half, should that ever occur. You share this vision of the future. Our choices are known to us, and us alone PARTIALLY (but not entirely) because....
We have lives outside of this. We will not be stupid and limit our careers or community respect because of our own internal command structure or sexual choices. It is no one elses business. The other part of the partial reason for this I will reveal the answer to should we get to the point of such a discussion.
You are financially responsible. Your history proves it. I will be asking questions. You may receive the answers to any questions I ask in return and you may ask me any along these financial lines that you like.
We together are not into urine, scat, etc.
There is never any degrading. I will not humiliate you. Your faith in and your promise to let me lead even in difficult times will be expected and sufficient.
I will want you to experience bondage and pain during sexual encounters, but not all of them.
I do not want you to settle. If any of the above makes you feel like you are going to sacrifice something you want, keep looking, there may be a better match. Do not contact me just because it is something cool to do for now. I dont expect a lifetime commitment to evolve right off the bat, but if you think there are incompatibilities here then spend your time looking for a better fit. I am not the least bit offended. Dont pretend to be on the same page, these are the precepts that will lay the foundation of our trust.
Finally, I am a later age single dad. My kid has no mother, she passed away years ago. When you are around my kid, you are miss vanilla. You will not be less important than my kid, but both relationships and the well being of my sub and my kid will be fiercely defended. Revealing our secrets I feel is destructive to my kid. So if you think dressing in public with give away attire such as a collar is a great way to express yourself, were probably not a match.
While I may have closed off many potential subs, I am open to mentoring if you are struggling with questions. I will not try to convince you that my choices are the correct approach, they are just my choices. I actually do not believe in a wrong approach, as long as that approach is true to ones self. So, just because we are not a match does not mean I do not respect your interests. As you can tell by my age, I have been around a while, and I have been around the block a time or two. If you feel you need help, I will gladly answer as I can.
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| Age: 25 |
| St louis,
Missouri |
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