6/22/2017 5:54:23 PM: Tomorrow is the BIG DAY!!!!!!!!  I am having my Orchiectomy done in the morning.  in case of those who don't know, that is the removal of the testies aka balls.I am so fricking EXCITED that this day has finally CUM!!!!! 

6/21/2017 5:42:31 PM: i really have to wonder about these people who call themselves a 'Mistress'/ 'Dom' who expect a submissive to just jump right in and start doing things that they tell them to do....all via social media....w/o first building a relationship in REAL LIFE.IF YOU EXPECT THAT FROM ME, YOU WILL BE REJECTED!!!!in my opinion, THAT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP!!!!!  that is just someone who THINKS they can take control of someone after just a few sentences via the internet.  that is NOT a TRUE 'mistress' or 'dom'.heather

5/11/2017 4:56:35 PM: Just a quick note:  NO MARRIED MEN........UNLESS the WIFE IS ALSO INVOLVED............example............ a Dom/Domme COUPLE

5/10/2017 1:07:19 PM: June 9th will be a VERY BIG DAY for me.  It is the day that I FINALLY get rid of those damned 'testosterone factories' FOREVER!!!!   Very Anxiously awaiting that day!love,heather

2/17/2017 9:39:09 PM: D/s Relationshipwhat are you looking for:   i am seeking a D/s relationship and being subservient to my dom/me.  A potential long term, real life, relationship.  A  D/s relationship  that would extend beyond the bedroom. including: choosing the outfits i wear, wearing a collar while out in public with each other, and if i am to be submissive to others.  Things i wont give up control of:  my finances(checking/savings and others), my meds/Dr. appointments, contact/visit with family & friends, or control over my social media.what do you expect to get out of it: knowledge, growth(physical/mental/emotional), more understanding of my submissiveness(hope that makes sense) and someone who loves me for the girl i am.  what are you looking for in a dom:  Someone who is loving, kind, gentle but firm, caring,  and supportive ( physically/emotionally) of my journey of transition.  Someone who knows that submission is built on TRUST.  Someone who knows that submission is NOT a sign of weakness and knows that it should Never be abused in any way.  Someone who understands that a D/s relationship takes time to build and is NOT built over the internet.  Someone who accepts my faults, understands that there is a very fine line between consensual play and abuse.  Someone who understands that a submissive is NOT a 'ATM' that supports the dom( been there done that, never again).Below is a 'list in progress' of my Hard limits:HARD Limits:  Breath play, needles, fire play, electrical play, choke holds, face slapping (even IF it is done in a nice gesture), knives, cuttings, being spanked with a leather belt or strap,  hand around the throat, and blood.the reason that it is a 'list in progress'  is because i feel that there are others that i am NOT aware of.soft limits: Tats, and nipple piercings.Allergies: Penicillin, shellfish, and coffee.  I am a non smoker/drinker, and i have never nor will i ever, use drugs.Top 3 fetishes: Breast bondage: i enjoy seeing them tied up , knowing that it will get me aroused and more importantly, make my dom/me happy, which in turn makes me happy. Caressing one another: because it brings pleasure/arousal to both me and my dom/me. Tender kisses: same as caressing one another.Top 3 Kinks: Hot bubble baths: i enjoy the way the bubbles 'cover' my breasts ( when i 'sink into' the tub.). Being tied up: i like the feel of being helpless and dependent on my dom/me to untie me. Light spankings: makes me feel all warm inside.Fetishes: Into: anal sex (everything to do with it), blindfolds (receiving), bondage (receiving), breast/nipple play (everything to do with it), collar and lead/leash (everything to do with it), dildos (everything to do with it), discipline (everything to do with it), enemas (everything to do with it), erotic photography (everything to do with it), exhibitionism (everything to do with it), gang bangs (everything to do with it), handcuffs (everything to do with it), high heels (everything to do with it), leather (everything to do with it), lingerie (everything to do with it), nipples (everything to do with it), oral sex (everything to do with it), pantyhose/stockings (everything to do with it), power exchange (everything to do with it), sex in public (everything to do with it), spanking (everything to do with it), strap-on (everything to do with it), toys, transvestism (everything to do with it), vibrators (everything to do with it), voyeurism (everything to do with it).Curious about: age play (receiving), ass play (receiving), caging/confinement (everything to do with it), candle wax (everything to do with it), chains (everything to do with it), doctor/nurse play (everything to do with it), fisting (everything to do with it), humiliation (everything to do with it), latex (everything to do with it), making home movies (everything to do with it), masks (everything to do with it), master/slave (everything to do with it), piercings (everything to do with it), pinching (everything to do with it), role play (everything to do with it), rubber (everything to do with it), talking dirty (everything to do with it), water-sports (everything to do with it), whips (everything to do with it).Soft limits: biting (receiving), hair pulling (everything to do with it), masturbation (everything to do with it), mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), pain (everything to do with it), sensory deprivation (everything to do with it).my interests are on my FETLIFE profile. there are some that are not on there.  They are:  fucking machines, milking machines, inducing lactation, glory holes, and the swingers lifestyle.