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-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived or died of cancer-
I am a cancer survivor.
Not looking anymore, found it :)
A Dom recently told me... To be a dom just for sex is just kinky sex. To be a dom that just wants to beat you , that is a sadist, but do not get me wrong I do love sex, and picking up a flogger now and then, but mind control, control of the living is much more of what this lifestyle is about
IOWA ONLY
Another Dom quote...... The lifestyle starts above the shoulders.
IOWA ONLY
If you understand what the above is referring to then you understand what I am seeking. Please feel free to send me mail and we will chat.
IOWA ONLY
Mabye its time to redefine what I am looking to find. I want a real, look me in the eyes, let me put my hand on you, smell your scent, be warm and breathing right in front of me in reality DOM. M/s D/s Daddy/daughter Daddy/Mommy/daughter.
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No cyber dums needed or wanted. No all I want is a kinky sex dums wanted. No I want to make you my little princess dums wanted. No I am not going to be your robot dums wanted.
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I am very willing to meet the right person in the flesh for lunch or coffee to see if we have chemistry between us. If you cannot meet me then do not bother me. You also had better know how to treat a full grown submissive woman or we are not going anywhere. No is a word in my vocabulary and I understand how to use it.
IOWA ONLY
IF YOU ARE NOT CLOSE TO IOWA DO NOT REPLY.
IOWA ONLY
57 yr old female in NE Iowa with 17 years in the lifestyle, looking for a firm, caring, fun loving intelligent older man to pursue a spanking, discipline, rl D/s relationship or rl Daddy/girl dynamic with BDSM overtones. I am married and yes he does know what I do and he is my safe call. I am not looking to live out the Story of O nor do I have a craving for humiliation or being treated like a person without self-worth. I live in the real world and if you live there also I would like a chance to get to know you. Oh, if you are looking for a free housekeeper or maid please contact a domestic services agency. If you use "u" instead of "you" please don't message me we have nothing in common. Please do not assume that just because I am 'a' submissive that it means I am your submissive. I am submissive only towards the one I give my submission to. If all you want to talk is about orgasms well I can do those myself. I am looking for a Dominant, please be aware of what that entails. And please if you are not interested then do not waste my time. I have no intention of moving so I would appreciate if only LOCAL Iowa dominants contact me.
GET THE MESSAGE YET?????????
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A Funny,
I like to write down my thoughts, but I've been around long enough to know that when you start including names its not called thoughts its called flaming. That practice is normally frowned on.
As I said, I know more about the life and comptuer chat rooms then the self righteous sub/slaves who run them. So imagine how hilarious I found it when someone mailed me wanting me to name names. Tsk, tsk, kids never go into a battle of wits improperly armed.
But the thing I really really like is how the person rose to the bait, there is no doubt they knew it was them. But again, I do not name names, I just laugh my ass off at how dumb some people really are.
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Respect
I like to chat in the rooms on CM, for the most part its fun and interesting. Like many people I go there to enjoy myself. Discussions, silliness and some cyber play, its all good fun. But sometimes you run into people who think they are gods because they are an op or they own a channel. They make rules and then proceed to break every rule they make. Then the rules only apply to others and not to them. That is known as a double standard or hypocrisy.
In order to clarify my own position. These are chatrooms, not reality. They are places for enjoying yourself and not subbing to some pmsing female sub/slave on a power trip who thinks everything they do, including cussing out dominants, is respectful. Dearies you really need to just come out and say you are a fem dom and stop hiding pretending you are a sub/slave.
You also really need to get your own house in order before you even think about pointing fingers at me. If I am playing with a dom and its not overtly sexual.......god forbid there would be sex in some bdsm chatrooms.......da horror, and the dom is fine with what I am doing. Sweeties its not your damned business to tell me what is respectful and what is not. Trying to make yourself holier than thou sure isn't respecful nor bright.
How about you go learn how to please a man? I mean PLEASE not lead a man by his short and curlies. Men how about you actually put some control on those power hungry tripping so called sub/slaves. Yeah, I mean discipline them and not defend their idiot antics.
And dear girls learn to watch who you think you can dom because some of us have forgotten more about this life than you will ever know. Remember good old SSC, means you cannot dom anyone without consent. And if you push it with me I will verbally tear you a new one. Most people in a chatroom may not be brave enough to confront. I have not a bit of problems telling someone to get off my ass.
Oh one more thing. If you are going to preach about respect and your married partner does not know what you are up to.......not only are you disrespectful you are a liar and pathetic. Yes we all notice, you aren't hiding it, and you really should be ashamed that the only way you can exist is if you can bully another person.
Chat rooms. Sometimes fun but dysfunctional personality strewn.
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Twits and Twaddles
The longer I am in this life the more the under educated try to change the meaning. Switch -- a position who can perform both the Top and or Bottom role in a BDSM play scene. It invovles a limited amount of power exchange. Dom -- the incharge person in a Dominant/submissive relationship submissive -- the one who submits to or follows the leadership of a dominant in a Dominant/submissive relationship.
Now those have been fairly standard definitions in the life for 20 years, but now a new role has arisen.
Twit Twaddle -- a collared submissve, owned, but with a capped nick indicating dominance. Domsub or subDom or just a twit.
If you are collared you are owned, you are considered to be a submissive or slave. If you have a capped nick then you are considered to be a dominant, unowned. If you are a capped nick with a collar you are just too clueless for words.
You just have to love em'.....they won't learn, they don't want to fit in and they want to define it all just for them. There is already a definition in place for them, players. But I do admit I like Twit Twaddle better :)
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Ah great another I wanna be your dum hits the dust.
Talk with them for a while, ask them for some structure, they say no, then turn around and punish you by ignoring you for breaking a rule you didn't know you had. Then when you point out the unfairness of the situation they throw a hissy fit and accuse you of too much drama and to get lost......I think the following is the right reply for the baby dum.
Well you can shove it up your own ass player, no wonder you are afraid of me talking things over with wiser doms, they show your own inadequate style of dominance. Go read some more porn and don't take up the time of those of us who do it and don't play it.
You can only pretend to be what you are not until it catches up with you. Throwing a fit just emphasizes what you do not possess.
Submissives crave structure, that is where we function best. But I guess its a bit hard to give structure if you have no clue as to what it is supposed to be.
I think the biggest tip off was when he started talking about 'training collars" and "collars of consideration". After 17 years I do not think I need further training and there is only one kind of collar, the one that says 'owned'. A collar of consideration is just a way of trying to legitimitze getting a piece of ass.
So dear little want to be dums do us a favor and keep your 1 handed typing confined to those of your own class...the hope to haves but never will have.
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