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katflayme

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DISCLAIMER: We are not looking for quick easy sex, cam sex, or otherwise, we are looking to make a lasting stable relationship with someone. So if you're just looking for someone to help you get off, please look elsewhere. We will also not be jumping straight into sexual things immediately upon meeting you. Trust and mutual respect and care for each other being built first is important to a healthy relationship.

Who we're looking for:
FYI, we are NOT looking for a unicorn. (Aka, a girl who can join our relationship and not make any demands on our relationship, who turns into a glorified housekeeper, babysitter, yatta yatta), but looking for a female to join us as a full-fledged equal member of the relationship. We'll be willing to meet your family, introduce you to each of ours, go on dates and be seen in public with you, and hold you close and tell you how much we care for you. If this sounds potentially like what you'd want, to let you know, we are quite aware that we will have to adapt and change to your needs and desires, and know that a long-term person in our relationship requires giving you the respect you deserve. We are not just looking for a ménage á trois, and it will be a proper relationship in all regards. We'll treat you to movies while we date, buy presents during the holidays, cook for you, be there as a set of shoulders to cry on when work or school was tough, give you lots of hugs, support, and love. We know you'll have your own needs and desires, and that as a group, we will have to learn to adapt to, and love you for. As the newer member of the relationship, we know we'll have to go the extra mile to make you feel included, not as a third wheel, but as a loved and cared for part of "Us three". As far as what we're looking for in an individual, preferably no one more than five years older or ten years younger (both of us have researched anti-aging while in college and applied it to ourselves and so don't age as fast as normal people, hence the unbalanced age range, if you're a bit older than our range but are physically younger, or vice versa, we may make an exception). And not to be rude, but just practical, please don't be significantly overweight - in excess of 300 lbs, you'd crush one of us, as one of us is quite tiny (as you can tell by our listed heights). We are looking for someone to be part of a relationship with us, a potential long-term third, and not just a fling. Your opinions will be important. For example, do we know how many kids we're going to have (if any), or even no for certain what their names would be? No. Do we know what city/state/country/planet we're going to live in next year? Nope. Do we know what color drapes we're going to have? Not a clue. Why not? Because we haven't consulted you yet.

Note: Although we're looking primarily for women, we may also consider a couple if its a female couple or a female/male couple where the male is VERY sub. We may also consider a pre-op FTM(especially if they're fine with only presenting and don't plan on operations) or a MTF who's a really good post-op. (Flayme is very straight, and easy to turn off. He's trying to be as open minded as possible, but any male-ness in the relationship needs to get past his reservations.)

Who we are: This is the combined profile of katame and moonflayme, since we're together now.

We both have a fair amount of experience with BDSM, although most of it is self-researched, and we're interested to hear about the ideas that others have come up with and learn different styles of play, and are looking to get more reliable experience.

BTW, we're awesome, and very geeky. If you would like to know more please message us. ^_^
7/25/2012 5:24:00 PM

We're in mixed loctions right now. One in Georgia for job training, the other in Kansas and about to leave. We'll soon both be in Georgia though, and later, adventuring around the whole country.

lovelykian
 
 Age: 20
 United states, New York