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Chat Requests do not work on my iPhone or iPad so please do not send them! Thank you! -Kate

I am looking for someone who I can be open with and someone who I can eventually let myself go with. I am seeking someone who enjoys talking, sharing, laughing, real connection, intensity. I am looking for someone who can carry a conversation, who has a level of intelligence to keep me engaged and interested. I am seeking someone with a creative mind (creativity is a good thing in many situations, don't you think?). I am looking for someone who wants his sub to feel delicious, desired, wanted and wanting. I'm looking for a Dom who is able to provide his sub with stimulus, direction, sexual exploration, and limit testing. I'm looking for someone who feels a strong desire to care for their sub, protect them, even love them, and take them to places they've only dreamed of in the deepest recesses of their fantasies. Because of this, I will want to give all I have and do everything I can to show him how much I appreciate him, need him, desire him and his complete happiness. What I am NOT looking for is someone who feels that a D/s relationship means that you need to be cruel, disrespectful, hostile, angry, demeaning, or abusive. Mutual respect has to be a part of the equation. I'm not seeking someone who wants me to feel small, weak, chastised, and broken ~ being in control doesn't mean you need to break her, it means you want to lift her up and bring her to a better place because you care enough to take her there... to that place where she feels safe enough to let go and let you. I'm also not looking for crazy, deranged, twisted, damaged, sociopathic men. If you want me to hook up with your dog, call me a whore 24//7, role play your mommy, impregnate me, eat from a dog dish, lock me in a cage, have sex with your friend (or husband or wife) while you watch, wear a diaper, drink my blood... not going to happen. I really could go on, because yes, these are literally some of the approaches I've been met with here on CM, but I'll leave it there because I think you have a pretty good understanding now of what I really just couldn't do. I know some are into that, and that's totally fine, to each their own fantasy and need, but for me? The most important thing to know about me that I enjoy being fascinated. That detail is much more important than the rest of my profile. But in case you want to learn about an actual human being instead of just sending me a message about how big your cock is or how great you are at spanking people, here is some information about who I am: I am a submissive deviant who thrives on dangling my feet off the edge and tip-toeing the tight rope of class and decency. I'm neurotic, compulsive and sometimes unstable. I'm a deviant, an openly depraved pervert who does not look the part. I enjoy corrupting elements when presented by intelligent people. I relish the roll of dedicated assistant, toiling in the background. I tend to be highly subservient to those I respect. Service is just something i'm quite skilled at. I have an equal love for intensity and being completely overwhelmed though. There is a true beauty in an efficient takedown and disabling. Letting go simply feels right to me. Sex is my addiction and a long held fascination. My favorite subject of practice and study, particularly the darker corners of it. I have no interest in the "lifestyle", munches, or get-togethers. The only rules that I want governing my sex-life will be made on a one-on-one basis, not found in a book or listed on a website. If your expectations resemble some prefabricated, shrink-wrapped "bondage pack" that you ordered off of amazon.com, please don't contact me. I'm not a middle-aged housewife who is shocked and fascinated by the concept of being spanked or someone who thinks that a "dungeon" is required for BDSM (Or that penetration is required for sex.) Let's just do away with the BDSM terminology and rules altogether, ok? Some of these rulesets are, at best, erotic laziness, and at worst, shorthand for new varieties of sexual oppression. I am not looking for a playmate. I am not looking for a sex buddy. I have an abundance of offers in these areas. I am looking for a long-term, whole-package, full-time, cohabitating relationship. I want it all. I want a life partner who is also my Dom. I want to live the everyday mundane routine as well as have the wild and crazy sex life. I want an emotional commitment. I want to give my whole heart and soul to somebody who will treasure me. I need to be treated like a slut and loved like a goddess. I need to give myself completely to someone who can make me feel protected, safe, loved, and horny too. I need to be with someone who can accept affection, love, and even terms of endearment without worry, discomfort, or fear. I also need someone who can freely give affection, and who will tell me that I am special to him in some way. I need to feel like I am a priority, in the same way that I will make him feel like he is at the top of my list. I want to be with someone who not only loves and cares about me, but who cherishes me. I want someone who is excited to see me when I’ve been gone for a few days. I want someone who finds comfort in my presence. I am a very goal-oriented professional. I need someone who will encourage me to be a success without feeling threatened by it. At times, my schedule can get pretty crazy, so I understand busy. I need somebody who also understands busy and preferably has the same kind of schedule. However, I also need someone who is willing and able to set aside purposeful and uninterrupted time to spend with me, even when life is out of control. am a communicator. I believe that communication is the key to success. This is true in all aspects of my life. I need a partner who also needs to talk things out. I need a partner who believes in some kind of communication on a daily basis. It is my opinion that the only reason to lie to another person is because you don't trust him or her. I don’t tolerate dishonesty well. I need someone who believes in the truth and who has integrity.
I am looking for a person who can be the sadistic player, the nurturing and guiding Dom, the loving companion, and the best friend. It seems that I can find two or three qualities at a time but something is always lacking. I've spent too much of my life just settling and not being truly happy and I don't want to settle anymore. If you are the right fit, you will gain an obedient and devoted woman who is supportive, reasonable, communicative, eager to please, affectionate, sexual, loving, capable of accepting love, and ready for a real relationship. I am as honest as I can possibly be. I don't believe in playing head-games. I put everything out there because I want to make sure that I am with someone who knows exactly who I am and what he is getting into. There are no secrets with me. I like to laugh and can be quite weird but I think that is part of my charm. I will sit and play in a mud puddle with a child, or I can attend a black tie event and impress the social elite. I am down-to-earth, but have been told that I am a classy woman. I am who I am and I don’t like to be anyone but me (unless we are role-playing of course). Now that you know a bit about what I would love to find in a Dom, do you think that someone could be you?

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MissSaria
 
 Age: 31
 Uk, Canada