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karloff

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I am a Dominant. I am not an asshole. Too often these two concepts are conflated, as if they were one and the same; as if all a sub needed to be happy was to be pushed around by an authoritarian jackoff who knows how to yell commands. If you're reading this you probably know very well that isn't the case. There's a difference- and a big one- between the man who expects you to call him "Sir" because he bought a cape and a pair of leather pants and the man who instills the respect in you that makes you WANT to call him Sir. Put simply, I am naturally Dominant. I need to be Dominant. If you need to be submissive then we have something to talk about. I've always been fascinated by D/s. Even before I knew what the hell it was, I used to fantasize about bondage, restraints, and control... I just didn't know it had a name. I put it all aside, grew up, moved to Seattle, eventually got online, and subsequently learned what it was that I had in my head all these years. BDSM. D/s. A world of equal parts sexuality, psychology, intellect, ropes, kink, sweat, and goosebumps.. Since then I've read all I could find, talked to whomever I could, and absorbed as much as I could. Here I am, years later, and I still haven't learned nearly enough. I respect submission. Not in the cheesy way, or the fake "aw, you're cute. now BEND OVER!" way, but genuinely. I respect the need to remove yourself from the equation, whatever the reason; the selflessness and brutal honesty of serving another; the intellectual awareness to even realize that this is what you need in the first place. it takes a strength and directness to submit, and it confers a responsibility I don't take lightly. At the same time, though, it's not all stern looks and red stripes. Let's face it- this is fun. Only here can things be so much more cerebral and more animalistic at the same time. Only here can you indulge your highest, most selfless instincts while getting fucked senseless. I love that.

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SubSoph
 
 Age: 23
  Michigan