Who am I? I am 46 yr old, Caucasian male. I am six feet tall and weigh 190 lbs. I am a former US military officer. I am now a business professional in the Northern VA area. I have a Masters degree in international business management. I do consume alcohol. I don’t smoke or ever take drugs.
Cross-dressing? I had my first experience wearing my mom’s clothes as a kid. I enjoyed it but never really acted upon it. In my late 30’s and early 40’s, I felt the urge to dress and did some minor experimenting with dress. But I always felt guilty about it, and went though several cycles of buy/dress/purge, buy/dress/purge. etc… I have always been deep, deep, deep in the closet due to my guilt and my role in the US military. … Now that I am divorced and alone, I see the opportunity to pursue this again. I doubt, I will ever be passable but I certainly want to just look better. If I ever get beyond a “guy in a wig”, that would be great. I actually don’t consider myself a cross dresser at this point – just a guy who wants to cross dress – yearning to reach his “sissy” potential!
Sexuality? I consider myself basically straight, but certainly bi curious. I love women -particularly strong powerful women. I do have experiences with males (limited) and have some minor experience with TGs. While certainly there is a sexual component of my cross dressing, it is not the only factor to my cross-dressing. I really want to improve my look. The gender of my Dom is a factor, but just a single factor. The personality and the fit with the Dom are more important. I would certainly engage a male Dom, particularly in my cross-dressing role.
Role? As a former military officer, I have lead personnel in a lot of differing degrees/situations. As a newbie cross dresser, I definitely see myself as totally submissive. Not just from the power exchange factor, but as a learner/pleaser to a dominant person. I want my cross dressing to be a pressure power release for me. I want to be lead through my cross-dressing and the Dom/sub role. I don’t desire to “Dom from the bottom”. Sex can be a component of that relationship, but that is up to the Dom. The end state is that someone can call me there “sissy”.
Limits? I see my submissive role as a humiliation leaning process. Light bondage, servitude etc is expected. I real don’t know much about the “scene” so, the limit of that would be up to the Dom of course. I am flexible as I gain confidence in the Dom and our relationship. Non-negotiable: I don’t do drugs and don’t want to be around people who do. I will not engage in any activities involving blood, scat or mutiliation in any way. I will not engage in any activities with children and any other illegal types of activities
Who am I looking for? A powerful assertive person who can lead me though a cross dressing/submissive life. I want a relationship. I am not looking for a one night stand. I want to meet in LTR and I am looking for local people. I am not asking for a single mutually exclusive relationship and am willing to be within a small group of submissive.
