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i'm a social yet introverted single mum who deals with issues around anxiety & depression so i have no idea how often i will play on here but i unfortunately definitely am unlikely to have the time/energy/inclination to respond to messages that dont provide some sort of understanding as to why i was contacted to start with (ie no "hey, wassup") if i dont reply quickly (or at all in some cases) please dont take offense & know i wish everyone all the best :)
that used to be how i closed my profile but since it seems many don't bother to read to the end (or at all often? really? i just don't get randomly messaging people "hi" or "what's up" when there's no indication of any compatibility other than various body parts that could likely match up in rather universal ways...) figured i'd make it my intro in hopes of increasing the chances folks will notice it (a girl can dream, lol) also corrected the typo wrt my chronological age :p
*not actually a switch*
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i find the "orientation" options woefully lacking. as my username implies, im fairly eclectic when it comes to kink (& most things in life, really) while the following describes more of my true core orientations, different aspects (including some i may have yet to discover/etc) might be prevelant depending on a variety of factors.
i'm probably primarily a bit of a brat (please note that is Not the same thing as a "misbehaving sub" but rather a spunky, passionate, playful person who likes teasing more dominant individuals and will only submit to a point but for the right person that could be completely at times & we tend to be very loyal to those who truly understand/appreciate our nature) which is why i put "switch" as it seemed the closest to conveying this.
i also have somewhat of a masochistic streak. the extent and ways this manifests varies widely depending on my mood, partner(s), context, etc.
the above are what most will encounter if chatting/etc with me; however, at my core i probably most desire a mature DD/bg relationship. i'm not into mindless submission nor being infantilized but finding that magical one who could recognize me as their true complement is something i almost dare not dream ~ someone who enjoys nurturing their partner & appreciates the incredible trust & intimacy that comes from sharing my "lil" space with them while at the same time respecting me for the woman i am just as i would cherish them for the man they are (while polysexual - not quite bisexual, wish the options would updae w/the times! - definitely see this particular dynamic being with someone who identifies as a male)
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