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I've never been one to frequent "online dating" sites (is this even really one?), so I'm struggling a bit with what to write here. Trying to portray oneself through words is often a futile task -- still, I'll try. I am naturally shy and eager to please. I genuinely enjoy going out of my way to make sure other people are happy. In the real world, this doesn't always translate to good things. My kindness has been taken advantage of by many a boy and man, seeing my desire to give as a solution for their need to consume. I am done being that girl. Over the past few years my self-confidence has increased exponentially, and for once in my life I know what I am worth. I may have always been into "kinky sex," and it's no secret that I'm pretty big on pain. Still, instead of seeking out men who understood my need to support (and have an awesome time in the bedroom), I sought out the ones who only wanted to exploit it. I'm now looking for someone who I can genuinely trust, and who will always have my best interests always at heart. If I can find someone who would be willing to give me the world, then I will be eagerly awaiting any possible opportunity to return that love tenfold. Logistically, two people entering a relationship really need to have these two things in common: a mutual attraction, and a genuine sense of respect. It would be nice to have similar hobbies and goals, too, though I understand that sometimes opposites will also attract. Outside of the dating scene, I do have hobbies and interests of my own. I work hard in school, at my job, and have an incredible group of friends -- and am looking for someone who feels the same about their life. I thoroughly enjoy having adventures: meeting new people, travelling to new places, and trying new things. Be warned, I'm something of an adrenaline junkie. I enjoy a good time, but I am also somewhat more serious than the average person. My curiosity can be insatiable at times... it's not uncommon to see me glued to my smart-phone, not because I'm texting or Facebooking, but because I NEED to know the definition of the strange word I just read, or clarity on a random piece of trivia that I overheard (I'm also a fact-checking junkie). If anything here appeals to you, or makes you want to learn more... send a message! I have pictures as well, though understandably do not want to make them public here for all to see. Still, if we talk for a little bit and you seem like a decent person, I would be willing to share them with you.

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inkyclouds
 
 Age: 20
  Illinois