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| Master & I have a blog that we both write on documenting our personal BDSM journey together. We welcome you to visit it at www.krausandkajira.com to learn more about us & follow our journey :o)
I am the kajira (slave) of Kraus & am otherwise known as “mistik”. I am 28 years old and am not only the true real life slave to my 30 year old Master “Kraus” but am also his wife & best friend too.
Our relationship with one another did in fact begin online about 10 years ago. I stumbled across Master in an IRC bondagenet chat room where I became instantly intrigued by his style & role playing skills. We interacted briefly and then he disappeared off the face of the earth for a week! A week that I spent hunting for him on IRC in the hopes that I might have the opportunity to speak with him once again.
Thankfully he was just away on travel & did eventually return. I contacted him immediately & unfortunately he did not remember me as I did him. Despite that he was flattered to be so remembered & we continued chatting.
As is typical, one thing led to another & it wasn’t long before I became his “online” submissive with an imaginary (or digital) collar connecting us to one another in the online community. For us however this was more then just the “fling of the week”.
We eventually moved our conversations with one another off of IRC & over to MSN Messenger where we continued to have long drawn out conversations with one another pretty much daily for about 3 years. We exchanged the odd picture & webcam conversations too but our text chats through MSN were literally our bread & butter which we both so deeply depended on.
Due to financial hardship on both our ends it took us that long to finally meet in person but once we did we knew what we had was very much real & wanted desperately to move our relationship from fantasy to permanent reality. 6 months later we married & we just recently celebrated our 6 year wedding anniversary.
Our relationship was built on the foundation of BDSM & I truly believe it brought us closer in the beginning than could have ever been experienced in a vanilla relationship. Real life BDSM however, is another story entirely & we definitely found that out after marrying. It’s something we’ve faced numerous challenges with throughout the years but feel we have finally come to a place where we are comfortable with how we’ve been able to incorporate it’s aspects into our marriage in a way that we are both now satisfied & with room yet to grow.
We are just real people with a real kink & a need for Master/slave roles & BDSM activities within our relationship. Our ultimate goal is to incorporate, balance & blend these activities more & more into our every day lives as we grow within our roles with one another so that eventually we will achieve what we feel is a full 24/7 Master/slave dynamic.
It's all about the journey :o)
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| Age: 40 |
| Northern town,
Illinois |
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