I'm new to this lifestyle...I'm not quite sure where to begin. I've never been involved in any sort of BDSM relationship, but I've been thinking about it more and more lately.

I guess the desire has always been there, but now that I'm a "full-fledged adult," my mind tends to wander towards those desires more and more.

I'm not sure where I fit in, but I'm probably more submissive than Dominant. Although, I could probably Dominate at times as well.

Also, you should know that this is not some passing interest; I'm quite serious about this lifestyle and would appreciate any guidance you can offer.

For your information, I have a professional career and am quite happy with my life in general. I'm in good shape and would like to meet a female that is also in good shape. I have brown hair and brown eyes. Age isn't that important to me, but I would like someone that's younger than 50 and older than 25.

I do have pictures that I will most likely post shortly. In the meantime, I'd be very interested in getting to anyone with a background in this lifestyle - ethnicity and upbringing are unimportant to me.