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UPDATE 11/26 - FOR THE RECORD - stepping back and just reading/some light play, spankings, etc.), I'm open to learning more. Here's what I've learned from looking at, reading, and receiving responses. Of many pages of responses I got after just a day or so - believe it or not, only about 5 people attached pictures of themselves. There was almost one full page of emails with no photos/no profiles (but still sent messages to me?!? That one was confusing...like, what I'm I supposed to do with that?). Of those same multiple pages - only a handful were actually from people here in Orlando (where I live). I appreciate the thought of someone being curious who lives in Indiana or wherever, but c'mon...I'm not going to fly up to where you are (even if you volunteer to pay for it), and I'm not going to plan for your visit during your vacation here. Yes, I know this all sounds not very "submissive" -- and I apologize for that. As much as I think about this world and want this to be a part of my life, I need to make sure I'm safe and that an opportunity could actually exist to meet in person and experience the things I've been fantasizing about in person (traveling there or here...not gonna do it). So for all those that have managed to get this far - if you're looking for a response, all I ask is the following three things: 1. Have a profile on here with your own pics (cartoons, sunsets, and equipment pics don't count - needs to be a face/body pic) 2. Attach a recent picture of yourself (you wouldn't believe how many people don't) 3. Be from the Orlando area (Related - I have exactly ZERO interest in "online" dom/sub) In the absence of that, apologies to all - but I'll be deleting without reading or even reviewing. Sorry for the tough love. If you're looking for an idiot wallflower as your submissive, that's not me. Now that that's out of the way - what I AM looking for. Someone local - someone not much older than their 50's, or younger than their 30's (because...too young!). Ideally, I'd like someone who is kind, but can be strict. Call me names in the first email and that's a guarantee to never hear from me. Call me names after I've gotten to know you...and that's a huge turn on. I'm a huge believer in establishing trust and a connection before playing. FYI - I have friends in this lifestyle, and they've given me a lot of good info so I'm not as lost as I'd otherwise be (despite being relatively new). Also - I believe in being picky (you should too), so if I don't answer you, please understand that this is important to me, and so I'm going to take my time and seek out the right fit.

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11/8/2017 1:27:23 PM
Wonder why I don't post a picture?  It's to eliminate those people who refuse to read.  If you don't like that I don't have a picture here, don't email me.  If you do email me, at least be courteous and respectful.  For better or worse, I am not the kind of sub that enjoys being insulted right away.  I have a lot of self-esteem, and my desire to surrender to the right person is built into that.  If you're looking for a weak-willed idiot with the self-esteem of an eggplant...keep on looking.  

P.S.  I actually do laugh a little at those who decide an initial insult is the way to find the right sub.  Spoiler alert...really not, but good luck with that...  For the rest - courtesy works; being picky is a good thing; have enough of your own self-respect to want someone who wants you.

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Noelle69
 
 Age: 25
 Ontario, Canada