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| I am a quiet geeky gamer guy that loves a relationship with a submissive or slave female that is not ashamed of her sexuality and gives it to me without questioning, but reserves it for us. I like to take care of my body, working out and swimming regularly, eating right, and enjoying the call of the wilderness once in a while. I spend most of my professional career in office environments, working on computers and networking equipment. I don' t smoke, nor use drugs, and I think it is important to find someone that is similar in backgrounds.
I have some experience in the alternative lifestyle, but I am not going to say I am a player or a professional rope rigger...I just like the idea of coming home to a long term partner who greets me at the door with a kiss, who doesn't mind me occasionally travelling for work, and enjoys nesting a little. I don't have a particular style of play...but I like the fuzzy cuffs, spreader bars, and other things that can add a little kink to a vanilla sex life.
I have encountered a few challenges in the world of dating...and one is the divorcee that isn't sure of a relationship with a straight guy...but is still needing a little male attention...and feels safer in a couple's home...I think I can relate to this dynamic...
I think it is interesting that there is such a division between the straight and bicurious or bisexual ladies....I am not a judgmental person and I, like most guys, would admit to being a little curious....I guess I tell it like it is:)
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I spend a lot of time in coffee shops and hamburger places due to my job, which seems to put me on the road more than I care to admit. I live for computer and data centers, and have been known to make a living pulling Plenum cable through a pipe under the floor at places of business...and hooking up wires to routers. I don't get rich doing this kind of work, but it is fulfilling. I have an interest in going back to school to get a background in accounting...so I can be more in management...I have a strange fascination with owning a bunch of hair salons and doing infomercials...so I can have a private plane to fly to Vegas when i get the urge:) Of course, that is only a pipe dream, but I think it would be a cool career choice....
My family is still very conservative, so most of my searches are restricted....I am the black sheep of the family because I got a divorce...but it was much more healthy for everyone. I am still learning about the relationship side of things...I know I am not ready to get married again....but i don't have commitment issues.....it is just more practical right now for me to keep the goal set more on a relationship that doesn't have problems with exploratory fun in the bedroom....and a little kink. I have been to a dungeon where the serious lifestyle BDSM folks hang out...and I decided that I did have some hard limits when it comes to kink. I am not into Cock and Ball Torture...no matter how beautiful a dominatrix is....and I think I am going to say that I don't think I will ever be into blood letting, edge play, or anything that leaves scars or marks...
I treat women with respect, even when they want to play the role of submissive or slave...and I don't get any emotional reward by "punishing"....I think most of my freaky nature is in the domination/submissive realm. I love the 1950's lifestyle more than I care to admit...even though most women today want feminism and control in relationships....which is why I am searching more today for the right personality and fit for my love. I love it when a female doesn't think twice about fixing a meal for me because she likes me...what ever happened to the girls that love to cook and take care of their guy? |
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