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justmemyselfandi

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Just moved to the GVA last year and need to make some friends so I'm checking things out here. My interests in kink vary so it is better to ask me than for me to write a whole book here but I'll try to sum me up a bit :). I have been on other kink sites in the last 10 years but have been into kink for over 20 years. I got classified as a switch only because I like to give and get. However I am experienced more as Dom than sub, but have no real preference. It depends more on the other person and their needs/personality and chemistry. Generally I would consider myself a sensual erotic with a passion for kinky play, fetish and "pin-up" apparel and enjoy bringing others pleasure. It may actually be easier to say what I am not into. I am not into needles, knives, blood, scat, kids, animals, extreme pain, or body modification of any kind with the exception of marks that fade. Anything outside of that is always acceptable for discussion. Consent is a huge turn on for me, whether I give it or it is given to me. I like to tease and be teased as well. I like naughty "little" teases who are in need of punishment, or a tease who feels the need to spank me for being a perv. I accept, expect, and respect all safe words. However none have ever been used by any of my subs. I may be a kinky perv but I still have a conscience and most of my morals, however be careful what you wish for ;). I have no interest in forcing myself on someone else unless they ask or give their consent. On that note I am a big fan of communication. If you tell me what you want and like there is a greater chance you will get it. Tell me what you don't and there is less chance of that too. I am not looking for a one night stand or just sex. I would like at least a long term friend or a LTR. Or both :). I would love to have someone surrender them self to me to do as I please, but not into "non-consensual rape". I would like someone who would feel comfortable privately "on display" for my enjoyment. I enjoy visual stimulation(bound or not) as well as physical(bound or not). Visual stimulation leads to better physical stimulation. The more aroused I am the more desire I have to arouse you. I'm funny like that I guess. Random pervy teases are always fun though to fill the time while looking. I am also looking for a new place for Nov 1st. Would not mind a new room mate. One that likes to tease and not please would be fun. Like I said consent is a huge turn on for me, but so is teasing and not getting consent. Without consent I am powerless lol.
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 Age: 28
 Pretoria, South Africa