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Warning Will Robinson... I'm not a 'true' slave. ** Will Robinson is a character in Lost in Space. The robot warns him of danger. He is not somebody that I know now, or in the past ** Hopefully that should clear up some misunderstandings.

So if you're looking for one who will automatically say yes Sir, no Sir, anything you want Sir... may I respectfully (or not) suggest you look elsewhere. It isn't that surrender or submission is hard for me; with the right person there is nothing easier, nor more right. What is hard for me is pretending.

What am I? That depends on circumstances and people. The is no one defined role that fits for all occasions. What I am not is a bottom or masochist, nor am I bi or bi-curious. My kink is the power exchange. Without surrender, it doesn't work. With surrender (and trust), the possibilities are endless. Single and not actively looking for a relationship, friends are what bring me here. That doesn't mean that I'm totally closed to the idea of a relationship if one does develop but better no relationship than one that is not right for me. If you're married or in a committed relationship (I define that as one where either party is committed), then please do not waste your time contacting me. As far as I'm concerned, no relationship needs a third wheel and I will not be anyone's secret. The same goes for poly. I have tried it, and it's not for me. As for casual play or sex... if I want those, they're not hard to find but neither are they what I need. �

If I come across as standoffish, it's because I often am; the walls (they are there for a reason) only come down infrequently and even then, not for long.

*Update* If there is no information on your profile and you send an email, please do not be surprised if there is no reply.

11/5/2010 9:51:33 PM

So there I was last Sunday, looking at kevlar jeans.  Nothing fitted and I wasn't about to pay $200 for the privilege of wearing ill-fitting (mainly too short in the leg with knee padding that ended round about where my knee begins) protective wear so I walked away empty handed.

Today, I browed the racks at the local Sally's.  It's amazing what you can find when you are prepared to find nothing.... and there they were, a pair of almost new Draggin jeans in my size.  They seemed to have been made to measure for somebody because if anything, the legs are too long and to my delight the knee padding is in exactly the right place.

That's not the best thing; the best thing is that they were tagged at $14.

Thirty something dollars later I walked out with a huge smile, kevlar jeans, a embroidered silk cushion, tank top, cardigan and new in packet (not anymore) expensive hosiery.

I love op shopping!

6/28/2010 4:08:37 AM
I use the mail filter; messages from the following user types go into bulk mail: 1. Females or couples 2. Those not in Australia 3. Those younger than 45 4. Those that identify as switch, submissive, slave 5. Those that identify as anything other than heterosexual While I occasionally check the bulk mail, I rarely reply.
5/22/2010 11:50:21 PM
Something got into me today and I had to write. All the writing is on another site where I use the same id. If you're interested to know more about me, you may want to look.
3/12/2010 3:33:22 AM
I am heterosexual, not bisexual, not bi-curious. Women do not interest me sexually at all. Being monogamous, couples do not interest me either... except as friends. And while I do not hate youth, if you're more than ten years younger or older than I, we probably have little common ground. Oh, and I don't switch. Hope that clears up any misunderstandings.
12/7/2009 2:48:45 PM
*Disclaimer: I apologise in advance if you find the following offensive... your kink is not my kink* I have no interest in Gor. In fact, in my opinion, It's a crock of shit. As much as I love reading scifi and fantasy, can you really base your moral and ethical belief system on a series of novels? Come on people! You have a brain, use it. Women are not inherently inferior to men, nor for that matter are men inferior to women (I view female supremacy in much the same light as Gor). People are simply people - not all good, not all bad, and to define somebody by gender is as unrealistic as to define somebody by race. That said, I do have friends who are adherents of Gor. We get along just fine... and agree to disagree.
1/23/2006 3:51:25 AM
i do NOT use private chat, so please don't ask as i have no wish to offend by declining.  Decline i will though.
debral
 
 Age: 24
  New York