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garnetheart
| Hetero Female, 47, Austin, Texas
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I do not suffer fools gladly, but sometimes I gladly suffer at least a little bit. Occasionally I will pity a fool, as encouraged by Mr. T.
While I cannot claim I would do *anything* for someone I love, I would do quite a variety of things for that person. Variety, spice of life, et cetera.
I do not much care for roughness. I prefer authoritativeness.
I am very loving and capable of showing great devotion. I tend towards monogamy or monogamish relationships, so I am not looking to play with someone married, and I am not really looking for NSA sex or to get involved in a poly relationship. If you are married or otherwise coupled, please let me know upfront so I can calibrate my responses appropriately. I assume anyone contacting me is a single man otherwise.
Also, we have to be able to meet in person-- I am not looking for a pen pal. Locals only. If you are moving to Austin, please contact me after you are settled. I would be glad to show you around.
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I like to go to parties and special events, particularly if there are costumes or fancy dress involved. I have to keep a fairly low-key appearance for day-to-day purposes, and I often have to keep to myself when working, but I clean up nicely and like to wear remarkable things-- and I love to be around crowds of people. Theres something about it I find really pleasing and energizing.
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Zaftig, not-short, pale, dark blonde, green.
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Please do not send a friend request that is not accompanied by a message explaining why you are sending it.
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8/7/2023 8:32:29 AM: A small bit of advice...
I don't expect (or even really want) someone to write me an essay as a first message, but it is helpful to remember this messaging system isn't the same as an IM or a text, and if you just send a greeting without any other content or information about your intentions, it is not particularly fruitful or intriguing. Same goes for one-liner compliments. I used to answer all of those out of politeness, but now it is just not inspiring enough to warrant a response.That's probably true for a lot of other people, as well. It's even worse when you haven't put any effort into your profile, or even used the interests and journal functions, and just send a 'hey' or some other greeting. What reason would anyone have to respond? Take some time and say something interesting and appealing that lets the recipient know who you are and what your reason for contacting them is, so they can decide if they want to engage in conversation with you.Good luck!
7/31/2023 5:18:32 PM: Another small bit of advice
I don't want to yuck anyone else's yum but I don't personally like being referred to in third-person as an 'it'. Just not something I enjoy or seek.
3/18/2023 1:45:34 PM: I'd really like to meet someone and leave this site. Here's what I would need to feel safe and comfortable doing so:1. Brief stint of messaging on here to confirm basic compatibility.2. If we're both interested, set a time to meet in a public place here in Austin-- preferrably a bit of food and drink somewhere.3. Go and and meet to confirm chemistry.4. Trade real contact information and begin... whatever it is we're going to be doing.
I have a rational basis for all of that and I do not want to debate about it.
I don't use Kik or Whatsapp. There are already too many beeps and boops in my life so I'd rather just use my actual phone for its intended purpose.
I do not wish to have a relationship with someone living outside of Austin, which I realize limits my options, but I just cannot bring myself to pursue another long-distance relationship. I know they do not work for me. If you can move here or travel here frequently, maybe we can talk it out, but I don't want to go months on my own.Good luck, everyone!
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