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I'm not exactly sure what to put here, or how to "sell myself" to anyone that may be reading this. What can a few paragraphs really reveal about a person anyway?
Well, regardless, I'll give it a try.
I'm easy going, quiet, shy. I don't understand the in's and out's associated with this lifestyle because, honestly, if you met me on the street you would assume I was the regular girl next door. And while in most ways that is true, I have a desire, no a need, to be dominated by a strong man. Does that mean I'm in the market for someone to beat me into a coma or call me every profane word in the book? Hardly. I truly believe there is a subtle, harmonious balance between kink and vanilla and I hope I can find that. While the idea of a 100 percent vanilla relationship upsets me, the idea of someone calling me a whore on a daily basis is not what I desire. If that is your own personal taste, then there is no chance any conversation between us will go anywhere.
Does my listing of what I'm not interested in make me hard headed? Mouthy? Hardly. I love dominant, strong, passionately rough men. However, pretending to like something that I don't will only lead to aggravation in the long run. So, with that on the table, I say again, I am not looking to be someone's "whore". However, if your idea of a perfect relationship is having someone wait for you impatiently, eager to please you in any way you desire, if that someone is someone you love, not possess, not abuse, not degrade, then perhaps we would be a fit. I tried sites much like this one, and this one, years ago and found that most men that messaged me wanted a slut. And while I do not degrade that particular lifestyle, nor judge those who find that type of relationship to be the appropriate fit, it is, again, not for me.
Me? I'm a college graduate, I make a substantial income from home, allowing me much freedom to explore any interests I may have. I am an accomplished cook, a borderline nerd. But, I also hold multiple black belts in varying martial arts and workout consistently. I believe that a relationship built on trust, on true affection, can just as easily exist with a basis on BDSM as it can with a strong emphasis on those vanilla activities. I don't hook up, I don't have flighty sex in order to scratch a sexual itch. I truly am looking for that other half, that top half, to keep me in my place and hopefully live kinkily ever after. Is that so much to ask?
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