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| I am myself, some like me some don't, most importantly i do.
I don't have to answer to anyone for my thoughts or actions but myself, i have a sense of humour at times dry, unless after wine and then its better.
Anyone can take a picture and say its them, but the soul is something that belongs to you, you alone, a picture can lie but the soul does not..
Treat others the way you wish to be treated, but if not capable, dig a hole and bury yourself, don't do this , if you are into afixiation... :)....
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keeping one's body to themselves and not sharing with all and sundry is truely worth while.
Keep what you love and worship to yourself, and when the time is right share it with the one you have given your soul too, it is like your gift of submission/Domination it is for them alone, not all to look..
Why do we not make others work for what is precious?
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many claim their happiness to what they own, but that is usually in money value, but happiness is with the person that walks at your side, see's your grumpy days and see's what no one elses see's .. the touch of a hand to say they understand, or guide you.. without money you still have this. |
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Boundaries are important, don't cross them and always respect them, boundaries can be moved, but it is a choice you make freely, not because another thinks they have the right...
No means just that .. NO!! Not maybe or could be, be clear and consistant. |
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There is a real difference between being abusive and being the lifestyle. Seek what it is one really wants and who to give such a gift too, never give it away freely, for your soul is yours to keep, don't let it be destroyed, just to make another feel powerful. Don't sell yourself short
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many profiles on sites as this one and others, talk of bdsm as a kink, but i disagree, nothing kinky about the lifestyle, it is different to some, and those ones that think the way many live and act is kinky, but we're not , the people do not understand, so therefore we are seen as different, the insecurities lay with the people without the knowledge or acceptance. I may be right, i may be wrong, but this journal is just my thoughts, and all entitled to them. |
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I am not looking for anyone, i am just being me, i am happy with who i am and the world around me, well not everything but i don't want anything more than chat friends, why is that so hard for people to understand. friends are healthy. |
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Life is like a bar of chocolate at times, it can be sweet and enjoyable or at other times just too much, its good to have bad and good it balances life ... |
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This lifestyle is not about what one person wants, but the joining of two souls. We can say we are something but without another how can we have been..
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