Some of my thoughts on life...Well, my life anyway.

A lot of people have walked into and out of my life, but...there have been very few I ever really wanted to stick around.
To those I have to say...So I made some mistakes try to see it once... My way.

I try to never regret anything that has happened to me in my life, whether it is making a bad choice, deciding to do something I shouldn't have, saying the wrong thing or not doing something I should have done... because all of these things have given me the knowledge I have today and helped make me who I am... and that is one thing I will never regret.

The way I figure it you should take chances… allot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up - and with who, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are... you learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel - always. Be you, and be okay with it.

You know, things happen to you, and sometimes you don't realize why it happened until much later. But eventually it all makes sense.

And besides I feel It's better to cross the line and suffer the consequences than to just stare at that line for the rest of your life and not know.

Several have asked what it is I seek and why I don't have a picture posted? I have to say it's pretty obvious what it is that I seek if you read my journal, profile and the messages I send out in response to you, it's all there for you to decipher and make your own judgements as to what it is that I seek.

Why don't I post a picture? Actually I have in the past and still do periodically for short periods of time. If you request one chances are I will send it to you, however if you demand one chances are I won't respond.  I don't really understand why it's so important nor do I understand the profiles that say "If you don't have a picture posted or a personal e-mail address don't contact"
Now really whats up with that?  There are allot of us that don't want our pictures floating around out here in cyberland. It's not always that we have something to hide or that we're being deceitful maybe we're just cautious.

And for those of you that have wondered and even asked... Yes I am real, I do exist and Yes I really am a sensual submissive. Just because I have an opinion and a brain doesn't mean that I'm not submissive. I hope that answers those three main questions I seem to get asked allot.

I've been receiving messages from several submissives who it seems are getting upset with the Doms that talk to them, learn about them and just disappear. I don't know how to respond to this really  but never at a loss for words...
All I can do is offer a little advice to a few of you Doms out there and  I think  you know who you are...
~PLEASE~
When you learn someones very soul and still like what you see inside of them,  snatch them up fast and let them know they belong to you. If not please just go on your way, don't play them is it really worth hurting their feelings?

To you tender hearted subs, have faith your day will come and your dreams will be fulfilled. I wish you all the best in your search for happiness.

In response to my question  of who you would never think of again...But you do. I was put on the spot with a question or two in return and requested to post it here for all to read so here's my answers:

#1:  I was asked how long it had been since I was in a relationship and I have to admit it's been awhile, I think mainly because I have rushed into things too fast in the previous attempts. I don't want to do that again. If I have another chance I don't want to ruin it with a pre-written script or preconceived ideas about how things need or should unfold. I am comfortable taking my time and letting things unfold the way they should and nature intends. I'm not really sure what I have been waiting for all this time but I think I can wait a while longer, if it means making sure things unfold naturally, in the right time and place.

#2: And what happened with the one I wished I'd never have to think of again...But I did?

*Answer deleted sorry* To many were taking it out of context.

(The orginial of that question is posted at the bottom.)

**In our lives we meet people. Some you never think about again. Some you wonder what happened to them? There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some you wish you never had to think about again...
But You Do...
And you wonder...
Do you?  I know I do.

"Sometimes what you don't say speaks so much louder than anything you could possibly say..."
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That might be true...

However I have come to the conclusion... For now that this website has gone insane.
I read my messages, and the profiles on here and have to wonder as I shake my head in dismay...

What the devil are 88.8% of you thinking? Have you lost your minds?
Where's the respect, honor, and dare I mention common decency?
To many are spending their time trying to be players. We're adults try acting that way.

This lifestyle is a choice not a sentence your forced to serve.
Nor is it a game to keep score in.