Be respectful. Be genuine. Be serious.  

I would love to find a long term dynamic. 

Open minded and up for trying most new things and pushing my boundaries. I can be a little shy at first, so if you think we could be a good match, please drop me a message. 

I would love to find a relationship with bdsm at its core but one where I also feel valued. But I'm also to a situation where I'm dehumanised or objectified also, the most important part is the desire for long term commitment. Im not solely focused on one particular situation or dynamic as I know that everyone is different and if it feels right then it feels right.

I am also transgender, its  who I am and not just something I am for sexual thrills. I am working on becoming who I really am but unfortunately it takes a long time unless you can afford private health care. Hormones started in March 2021. 

Please dont expect to be able to demand things and boss me around after just a couple of messages, Im serious about finding something substantial and long term. Not in a position to accommodate at the moment. Im also not working, which does allow me more time to fully focus and invest in and explore something meaningful.

I look forward to hearing from you x