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7/19/2014 2:08:08 PM   View Comments
Life is what you make out of it! Be positive and life is wonderful!

10/20/2013 7:48:18 AM   View Comments

We are not given a good or a bad life.


We are given a life.


It's up to us to make it good or bad.

8/3/2013 6:01:06 AM   View Comments
I'm naturally sweet and nice but if you piss me off or mess with me...just watch me magically switch from 'NICE' to 'BITCH' within 5 seconds ;-)

10/19/2012 10:24:36 AM   View Comments

“It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart.”

10/11/2012 11:56:03 PM   View Comments
"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill.
It will make or break a company, a church, a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past, we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.

The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.

I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you - we are in charge of our Attitudes."

~Charles Swindoll

8/29/2012 7:32:03 AM   View Comments

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.
These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.

Elizabeth Kubler Ross

7/12/2012 5:35:22 AM   View Comments

A child can an adult three things:




a) to be happy for no reason




b) to always  be curious




c) to fight tirelessly for something




Paulo Coelho





7/11/2012 12:27:01 AM   View Comments
You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.

7/10/2012 11:36:59 PM   View Comments
"Courage is the power to let go of the familiar." ~Raymond Lindquist

7/1/2012 6:26:47 AM   View Comments

I have to live with myself, and so
I want to be fit for myself to know;
I want to be able , as the days go by,
Always to look myself straight in the eye;
I don't want to stand with the setting sun
And hate myself for the things I've done.

I want to go out with my head erect,
I want to deserve all men's respect
And here in the struggle for fame and pelf
I want to be able to like myself;
I don't want to look at myself and know
That I'm bluster and bluff and empty show.

I never can hide myself from me;
I see what others may not see;
I know what others may not know;
I never can fool myself and so
Whatever happens,I want to be
Self-respecting and conscience free.

5/2/2012 9:33:29 AM   View Comments

"When it’s time to die, let us not discover that we have never lived."




-Henry David Thoreau

4/29/2012 11:53:57 PM   View Comments

Real difficulties can be overcome,


it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.


Theodore N. Vail

4/28/2012 10:48:07 AM   View Comments

Ask me why I keep on loving you when it's clear that you don't feel the same way for me... the problem is that as much as I can't force you to love me, I can't force myself to stop loving you. ~Author Unknown

3/29/2012 7:16:41 AM   View Comments
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”
Bob Marley

3/29/2012 7:15:45 AM   View Comments

“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.”
Bob Marley

3/28/2012 1:17:25 AM   View Comments

You are not fully dressed until you wear a smile :)

3/21/2012 12:20:09 PM   View Comments

A strong woman


is one who feels deeply


and loves fiercely.




A strong woman


is both soft and powerful.


She is both


practical and spiritual.




A strong woman


in her essence


is a gift to all the world.







3/13/2012 1:36:10 AM   View Comments

I have no special talent.


I am only passionately curious.




Albert Einstein

3/11/2012 5:11:27 AM   View Comments

The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before.


Albert Einstein

3/9/2012 9:06:00 AM   View Comments

How can I just let you walk away
Just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking every breath with you, ooh
You're the only one who really knew me at all


How can you just walk away from me
When all I can do is watch you leave
Cause we've shared the laughter and the pain
And even shared the tears
You're the only one who really knew me at all


So take a look at me now, 'cause there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now, 'cause there's just an empty space
And you coming back to me is against the odds and that's what
I've got to face


I wish I could just make you turn around
Turn around and see me cry
There's so much I need to say to you, so many reasons why
You're the only one who really knew me at all


So take a look at me now, 'cause there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now, 'cause there's just an empty space
But to wait for you, is all I can do and that's what
I've got to face
Take a good look at me now, 'cause I'll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
It's the chance I've got to take, oh, oho


Just take a look at me now

2/15/2012 11:28:25 PM   View Comments
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
 ~Robert Heinlein

2/12/2012 3:07:35 AM   View Comments

And another one of my favorite songs :(




All at once

2/12/2012 2:29:47 AM   View Comments

R.I.P. Whitney Houtson




Saving all my love for you

2/11/2012 3:25:19 PM   View Comments

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning

2/4/2012 12:09:46 AM   View Comments

It's one of those days again,
when music is your only friend...

12/15/2011 4:05:51 AM   View Comments

No matter how down life gets you, remember that once you hit rock-bottom, the only way to go is up.

12/15/2011 2:43:34 AM   View Comments

The art of life is the art of avoiding pain.


Thomas Jefferson

7/11/2011 1:44:13 AM   View Comments

Life is like a giant puzzle, can't cut or force the pieces to fit. You just have to find the right ones.

5/22/2011 11:53:42 AM   View Comments

Happiness comes of the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life, to be needed.


Storm Jameson

5/5/2011 4:16:35 AM   View Comments

Life has many doors that may be opened and closed...


What you make of your life depends on which doors you choose to open and which doors you choose to close.

4/11/2011 1:35:35 PM   View Comments

Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams.

2/15/2011 10:28:28 AM   View Comments

I must learn to love the fool in me, the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries.




Theodore Isaac Rubin

1/28/2011 9:43:58 AM   View Comments

Foolishly I grew too close, too soon, to something I should have guessed would turn out too good to be true in the end.

1/26/2011 12:56:02 PM   View Comments

Almost Lover





Your fingertips across my skin
The palm trees swaying in the wind
You sang me Spanish lullabies
The sweetest sadness in your eyes
Clever trick
Well, I never want to see you unhappy
I thought you'd want the same for me




Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should have known you'd bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do




We walked along a crowded street
You took my hand and danced with me
And when you left, you kissed my lips
You told me you would never, never forget
These images
Well, I'd never want to see you unhappy
I thought you'd want the same for me




Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should have known you'd bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do




I can not go to the ocean
I can not drive the streets at night
I can not wake up in the morning
Without you on my mind
So you're gone and I'm haunted
And I bet you are just fine


Did I make it that
Easy to walk right in and out
Of my life?




Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should have known you'd bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do

11/24/2010 3:00:49 AM   View Comments

Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.




Bill Cosby

10/28/2010 12:10:02 AM   View Comments

The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible.




David Viscott

10/28/2010 12:03:46 AM   View Comments

You want me to act like we've never kissed, you want to forget; pretend we've never met , and I've tried and I've tried, but I haven't yet... You walk by, and I fall to pieces.


Patsy Cline

10/28/2010 12:01:44 AM   View Comments

I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you do...I'm sorry I can't help myself, I'm in love with you.

9/29/2010 11:46:24 PM   View Comments

A part of you has grown in  
me. And so you see, it's you and me together forever and never apart,  
maybe in distance, but never in heart.


9/29/2010 11:30:55 PM   View Comments

I don't pretend to know what  
love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is  
knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than  
any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything  
about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is  
feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees  
when they walk into a room and smile at you.


9/29/2010 11:12:05 PM   View Comments
Thanks to Collarme, for sending me an angel...  

9/29/2010 5:12:35 AM   View Comments

Don’t ask what the world  
needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the  
world needs is people who have come alive.

Howard Thurman


8/9/2010 12:03:04 PM   View Comments


If we could turn the population of the earth into a small community of 100 people, keepingthe same proportions we have today, it would be something like this...


61 Asians


12 Europeans


08 North Americans


05 South America and the Caribbean


13 Africans


01 Oceania


50 women


50 men


47 lives in urban area


12 are disabled


33 are Christian (Catholics, Protestants, Orthodox, Anglicans and other Christians)


21 are Muslims


13 are Hindus


06 are Buddhists


01 Sikhs


01 Jews


11 are non-religious


11 practice other religions


03 Atheists


43 live without basic sanitation


18 live without an improved water source


20 people own 75% of the entire world income


14 are hungry or malnourished


12 can't read


Only 12 have a computer


Only 8 have an internet connection


01 adult, aged 15-49, has HIV/AIDS


The village spend US$1.24 trillion on military expenditures UN


and only US$ 100 billion on development aid


If you keep your food in a refrigerator


And your clothes in a closet


If you have a roof over your head


And have a bed to sleep in


You are richer than 75% of the entire world population


21 people live on US$ 1.25 per day or less


Appreciate what you have


And do your best for a better world

8/3/2010 5:41:19 AM   View Comments

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option...

7/22/2010 10:55:57 AM   View Comments
Immortality: A toy which people cry for, And on their knees apply for, Dispute, contend and lie for, And if allowed Would be right proud Eternally to die for.
Ambrose Bierce

7/12/2010 12:07:50 PM   View Comments
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

6/15/2010 8:20:24 AM   View Comments

What it is

It is nonsense
says reason
It is what it is
says love

It is misfortune
says calculation
It is nothing but pain
says fear
It is hopeless
says insight
It is what it is
says love

It is ridiculous
says pride
It is careless
says caution
It is impossible
says experience
It is what it is
says love

Erich Fried

4/25/2010 11:48:11 PM   View Comments

To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.

4/19/2010 7:48:22 AM   View Comments

 In the end, we only regret the chances we  
didn't take, the relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions  
we waited too long to make...


3/31/2010 1:47:36 PM   View Comments
What would life be if we had no courage to attempt  

Vincent van Gogh


3/28/2010 3:30:14 AM   View Comments

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”

Jim Morrison

3/20/2010 4:57:46 AM   View Comments

Live life fully while you're  
here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends.  
Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going to  
anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to  
learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate  
it. Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being  

Anthony Robbins


3/12/2010 1:19:28 AM   View Comments

Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason mastery demands all of a person.
Albert Einstein

2/13/2010 2:21:26 PM   View Comments
I am not living to please others.  

1/28/2010 2:30:29 PM   View Comments
I would like to mention, that I have found some very special people on here. I was not expecting this in any way.
Thank you for being genuine and let me learn about you and about myself.

4/28/2009 12:20:43 PM   View Comments

Online domination is not enough for me. It can be a extension to a real relation, but nothing else. From now on I will not go for online anymore.


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