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11/5/2017 1:18:47 AM
If you've noticed the site being more glitchy lately be aware that this time it can be more than just a slower connection or a failure to load. I just ended up on someone else's account when I signed onto mine, with full access to their emails, profile, etc. While it was fascinating to see what a lesbian switch gets for email, I'm pretty sure that if it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone else too.  

10/22/2017 9:20:48 AM
I've been seeing more profiles of submissives indicating that they want a sugar daddy to finance their transition. In return for that they will be a loving, devoted partner/slave. The only problem with that is that after you spend all that money on someone what guarantee is there that they decide to stay with you? The answer to that is there is NO guarantee at all. They could leave tomorrow and your investment literally walks out the door. Which is why it's a Cinderella story. It does happen, but a more realistic plan of action is to get a job (or jobs) and start saving for HRT, hair removal, and eventual SRS (if that's the plan). There are people out there who dream and there are people out there who do, and while imagination IS important, doing is better. I knew someone who had to spend three years working as a delivery driver to finance her transition and I have nothing but respect for people who bust their ass like her.  

9/3/2017 12:49:47 PM
Your chance of meeting me drops considerably if you don't have a picture showing me what you look like. Excellent writing skill can counteract this since I have met people sight unseen, but I've also been lied to a few times by people who thought their appearance was something they could lie about and I would just brush it off. When someone has to lie about basic information though, that's a bad sign, for dominant or submissive.

On a related note I respect those that do not wish to show their face due to privacy reasons. Not everyone is 'out' per se. I am, but I absolutely do not expect anyone else to be. Being self employed does have certain advantages.  

6/9/2017 11:55:10 PM
All the pictures on my profile except the last one are of previous partners. Some of them are still on Collarspace. Notice that all of them are in restraints, with some in very strict bondage. I'm not in a rush to truss up and dominate my partners though. I like to meet in person and share a meal, get to know my partners as real people and hear what they have to say and what they want to try if they are new to this. Everyone is more than the sum of their profile photos and text. But in the end I do want to control you... as much as you can handle. If you are nervous in bondage that is a serious plus; I do like anxiety and trepidation. However my overall goal is to take good care of my partners because I want them to come back for more, even if they are conflicted about what they are doing : )

3/4/2015 11:29:16 PM
"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you were never worth it."

One of these statements is true. The other three are usually complete and utter bullshit.

8/29/2013 6:07:57 PM
I met with Ressa in Saskatchewan. I'm the reason she hates tickling. Otherwise she was by far the best partner I have ever met. I can't recommend her highly enough.

7/12/2013 4:48:48 AM
I recently broke off communicating with someone named Mia from Seattle who wrote to me from a variety of email sites with the moniker tgirl2be and wow, sometimes people do not take being turned down well at all! Plenty of options out there; if one doesn't work you just move on to the next one.

3/3/2013 11:12:48 AM

One thing I see on many submissive profiles is the desire to be a bimbo. I am NOT a match for anyone who wants this. I like partners who read newspapers and books, watch good or even bad movies, and enjoy interesting conversation. Undoubtedly there will be times I will want someone to shut up, but that's what ball gags and kissing are for.

2/24/2013 8:16:14 PM

The cover picture on my profile is of snowbunnysubbie in Seattle. She really was the one that got away!

10/21/2012 9:07:21 PM
I met with kinkysissy29 recently. She was on time (unlike me) and ready to talk. She even trusses up nicely ; )

9/14/2012 11:52:38 AM

If you're over age forty, heavier than me, or still have body hair you have ZERO chances with me. I do require a face and body pic en femme because although most of what we do is mental, the physical attraction has to be there. For a dalliance I have a limited range but if you're looking for a lifetime relationship I will travel to the right prospect. I wish everyone luck on their search.

3/18/2012 10:13:56 AM

I visited and went out to dinner with Soyokaze recently. She has a very accurate profile and was a good date. Not the right submissive for me personally but for some domme out there she will be a delight to own : )

11/19/2011 3:00:20 AM

Since I have been asked a few times yes, the picture on my profile of the bondage doll in the Clejuso handcuffs and discipline hood is a picture of sissybitch9. She met me in person and knew EXACTLY what she wanted. I was not able to provide what she wanted due to prior commitments but she photographed well and was one of the most motivated TGs I have ever met. I highly recommend her.





5/26/2010 11:48:45 AM

I don't friend someone unless if I've spoken to them extensively.
If I friend someone that means I'd like to visit them in person.
You must have your height, weight, age, race, and location listed in order for me to talk to you. If you do not, expect me to block you.
You must have clear photos to send if you do not have one posted on your profile. This means face and body pictures.
I prefer not to use titles in conversations unless if I have EARNED the title you bestow upon me.
I do my dominance in person once I know someone fairly well, not via the internet.


I've had a quarter century to learn my craft. Yet I still learn something new from every partner I dominate.


I don't waste a lot of time. If I like what I see, I'll tell you. If you're too far away for me to visit anytime soon, I'll tell you. My views on travel are however VERY different than most people. If someone is right for me I can honestly say that the planet is a very small place.
I talk to prospective submissive partners like they are adults. A submissive has hopes and dreams like anyone else and I'm on this planet to make some of them come true.
Lastly, I'm looking for doers, not dreamers.


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