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10/15/2017 9:25:19 PM
While not opposed to being in a relationship, I'm no longer seeking one as the primary focus of my life. What I've written is still relevant, though. If what I describe below were to present itself, I'd be in.  
 
I'm interested in creating a relationship deeply grounded in a mental, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and sexual connection which includes, but is not completely defined by, a D/s dynamic.  
 
- I believe in equality of individuals but clarity of roles.  
- I believe both Dominant and submissive are servants in their own way.  
- I believe friendship, mutual respect, a common view of life, and common goals are the foundation of any long-term relationship.  
- I believe kink, rough sex, and exploring limits can be fun, but more importantly are a workshop for developing trust and understanding.  
- I believe communication is absolutely paramount, and requires both parties to value clarity and truthfulness. And don't say you can't communicate because you're an Introvert; I'm an INFP, if you're into the whole Myers-Briggs thing.  
 
If we're considering a relationship, I'll not make Dominant-type requests of you prior to reaching some common understandings and agreements. Our initial meeting - or meetings, until you reach a level of comfort with and trust in me - will be a date, not a test drive. I am first and foremost a gentleman until it is no longer appropriate to behave strictly in a gentlemanly manner.  
 
I'm primarily a Mentor/Teacher/Daddy/Sensei type of Dom. Don't assume from that, however, that I am either unwilling or unable to be extreme should extreme be called for.

    

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