Looking to take ownership of a submissive or slave boy under 25 with a lot of potential both in and out of sex, who's life goals are about being in a stable Dom/sub relationship with a very successful man and his partner.
We are both professionals distinguished in our fields and very sexual -- This is a family situation with dungeon time, not the other way around.
I am an aggressive and determined trainer/user of submissives and slaves. It’s something I have been doing for more than 15 years, so I have the qualifications to teach and to develop a (I prefer younger) boy into a worthwhile (even if you feel worthless) and useful tool.
When I say that I am into something, I am not by any stretch of the imagination listing all that I care to explore but instead hitting a few (random) highlights that occur to me while sitting here. Sexually I am a total top who loves all form of good sex.
My interests center on sexual service and include bondage and strict discipline. I know what I like; I also know how to take you where you need to go with your level of experience and interests. I like conversation, but can’t be bothered with cyber or ‘unreal’ contacts. I am about finding someone fun, making the determination we share enough interests and then meeting and exploring the same IN REAL LIFE, real time, actuality rules. I don’t want to waste my time or yours.
My bags are full of tools of the trade.. Metal and leather restraints. Hoods, gags, harnesses, I also have ropes and chains and for those who need special confinement there is a man sized cage to really show you what it really means to be confined. When I discipline I use hand, leather or wood….. I am not sadistic (most common reaction: good . Second most common reaction: too bad) but I do have a very literal understanding of the role pain can play in training a submissive. There is a special neural pathway that runs from the pain center in your butt directly to your brain, I swear it!
A quick word to those who are not quite ‘ready’ to do their explorations in person. I have been around people online and in person who believe in their concept of ‘someday’ they will be ready to explore, or it will be ‘safe (its always emotional safety – physical safety is pretty easy to obtain). My general observation is that if you don’t have a very specific set of milestones and goals your feelings will run you all over the map until you finally TAKE ACTION to explore and develop yourself into the person you can become. It really pains me when I get messages from guys I talked to in the mid-90’s telling me that they are almost ready to start meeting people, some 10++ years later. The most recent example is a guy who was 21 when we started talking and is now 35. I mourn his wasted youth and time. It’s all about choices and I think that the choice to take some bold steps in your life will pay off far more than waiting for the ‘right time’ to be the person you should become.
I think that domination and submission creates the most intense connection that two people can share. I know I am a little preachy, but I read your whole profile voluntarily and now you have mine.
My life is blessed with amazing people, a rich texture of friendships, master/slave connections, and family. We're just looking to add someone important to belong in that special way.
I am open to interesting offers and contacts from people who understand that courage is defined as boldly moving forward without waiting for your feelings to catch up to your commitments. In me you can expect to find a man who wants to offer something to you, and take your service and obedience in return, at least.
Questions welcome.
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