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jollygee

Our relationship is still growing (even after 40 years) so we are not looking for others at the moment. I am in a partial femdom relationship with my wife. She is gradually enjoying more and more of what this lifestyle can give her.

We are interested in learning more and would like to correspond with others in a similar situation.
12/16/2014 12:12:13 PM
The training continued untill we had to travel. The day we left was a rest day from training, I was unlocked and made to cum. While away for nearly 3 weeks I received only one caning while my Queen had a few orgasims. I didn't cum. I also forgot to put the chastity device back on before we left but nothing came of that except a lecture.

Now that we are home the training has started again - I wasn't consulted about it, just told over the intercom to go to the house for my caning. Don't know what her plans are for me and us. She has reintroduced 'the die'. This is a large die and six cards with activities. I'll write up the activities in another post but basically there are 4 for her and 2 for me.
11/10/2014 3:30:56 PM
This week 3. Just the cane is being used as the other implements may make a noise but don't make an impression. I have had to learn the 7 statements and now don't have the written sheet to prompt me. Be careful of what you wish for, because you might get it.
10/30/2014 1:13:11 PM
My Queen modified "The Ten" changing the words so they referred to her and she dropped the last three. She has used a variety of implements - cane, wooden spoon, hairbrush, suede whip, short rubber whip. I am also unlocked at night - sometimes. One night she said to me as we were going to bed " Get rid of those flying insects and I will unlock you" I laughed and showed her that she had unlocked me earlier before we responded to a fire call. The next day she added two hard strokes of the cane.

The dynamics have now changed from play to more serious play. After the two extra strokes she was sexually aroused. By the next morning I just wanted to make love with her. The way I do that has changed from intercourse to wanting to make her cum.

We have four weeks available to us before we will be staying with others which will curtail the sessions. A question she asked was "What happens after the initial five weeks ?" We still have that to work out.

10/23/2014 2:24:54 PM
I have been locked up for a few weeks and have not cum. I was unlocked for a couple of days as we went firefighting but immediately afterwards I presented myself to be locked again. This developed into a conversation on where we are going with this. I sent her a link to "The Ten" http://uniquelyrika.com/femdom-husband-training-ascendant-she-the-ten/

 (If anyone knows what "cleve" in statement 1 means please let me know. [and I means knows not guesses])

We both agree that I am more attentive both sexually and in other ways when I have not cum for a while. My wanting to please / pleasure her has been with us from when met 40 years ago. She enjoys being pampered. It would be a win / win if I was more focussed on her and if she had more time to receive attention.

It is interesting times.
8/25/2014 12:36:39 AM
I had been away for 5 days and not locked up but did not masturbate. This morning my wife told me I had been a "good boy" and as a reward I could rub her. We played for an hour or so and at the end I was locked up without cumming. Poor wife all day I have been playful nibbling her ear and neck, making growling noises and running fingers and fingernails over her. This has been giving her goose bumps and shivers and making her feel cold
1/29/2014 2:19:18 AM

Again she read to me at lunchtime and when I had to go back to work she told me she would read again later and we would go to bed. In bed she told me I would not be cumming till April when 100 days were up. Then she came quick and strong.

1/24/2014 11:57:16 AM

Not much playing. Got unlocked Sunday 12th as it looked like I might have a stay in hospital and was not locked up again till Thursday 16th. My Queen has been reading "50 Shades of Grey" to us which quite often ends with her being serviced.

1/5/2014 1:04:06 PM

My wife and I had a chat about where this Queen - Knight stuff is going. Because of the good effect that being locked up has on me I am now in my CB-2000 (one of three devices we have) since New Year's Eve except for being unlocked so I could enter her (but not allowed to cum). After our house guests leave I will probably be caned too as even though it hurts a few hours later I get these warm feelings towards her which last and are good for our relationship.

 

It was also decided to reintroduce the 2 for 1 rule where she cums at least twice as much as me.