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Note- please also read my journals. I am a Sensual DomMaster, that wants to expand my knowledge and experience. I hope to find a woman that will help me grow as we both learn how to best satisfy each other. Im open minded, and have a vivid imagination. I am fairly new to this site and the whole thing (lifestyle) but have had a few experiences. I have been with submissive women in the past, I just didnt fully realize it at the time, and take advantage of it. Note- my current living situation at home may make it difficult for me. (I have a girlfriend that lives with me. The relationship is not going well.) I can go into detail later. The woman of my dreams is a culmination of the women I have dated and been with. For me - Trust, Total Honesty, Total Openness are Extremely Important. This is the woman I have dreamed and fantasized about most of my life! It wasnt until recently that I fully realized there are women out there exactly like I have dreamed about. A submissive woman (maybe almost a slave?), that will give herself to me fully. Mind, body, heart, and soul. A woman that has a mind of her own, independent, self sufficient, and has a job (a normal life). But looks forward to being with her MasterDom, and is willing to give herself to me anytime. A woman that is very orgasmic, can cum very easily and multiple times. A woman that is at times vocal about what she will do for me and too me. A woman that will occasionally tell me what she would like me to do her. That is open to trying new things. A woman that loves to give oral, and enjoys the taste. That loves feeling me inside her and loves the warm feeling of me cumming inside her. A woman that is willing to be intimate at anytime. Maybe me playing with her when we are out in public. Under the table while at dinner, in a dark theatre, or in the car. That would consider maybe something more while out in public. When in private, would be willing for anything at anytime. A quickie in the kitchen, while cooking or doing dishes. Maybe while in the shower, or even when going to the bathroom. When in bed, loves to kiss, cuddle, snuggle, spoon, and be touched all over. A woman that is willing to make love at anytime. That doesnt mind being woken up with me playing with her, eating her, or entering her. A woman that will touch and play with me, go down on me, or climb onto me while I am sleeping. Because she knows it is what I want. A woman that at times will be my alarm clock, and wake me up with oral or by riding my morning hard-on. What better way to wake up in the morning (receiving oral), to open my eyes and see a beautiful hot wet pussy ready for me to eat for breakfast. Or to open my eyes, seeing the beautiful sight of my woman enjoying my hard-on. What a way to start the day!! I am a very loving, emotional and caring man. I can be very subdued and quiet at times. I have a difficult time causing severe pain to a woman. I was brought up that a man should always treat a woman with respect. But I also understand that some women like and love some discipline and pain(But must be done with respect!). Im interested in blindfolding my woman, and some light bondage. But am open to more things. I mainly like to torture my woman with orgasms. Ive come close in the past to making my woman pass out from orgasms. I also love to tickle, I guess you could say I love the pleasant type of torture. Candle wax, feathers and toys are fun too. With the right woman, more types of torture can be explored. I am average down below, around 6.5 I also have a little ED issues, but should ease up with the right woman. I prefer not to use condoms, I love feeling everything. Its also more intensely intimate and emotional for me. I am not fixed, so there is a chance unprotected sex could result in pregnancy. I am looking for a one man woman, monogamous relationship. But will consider adding another woman for my pet. Mainly for her, a woman to help me torture my pet, with orgasms and anything else that I come up with. Note- the other woman is not for me. My pet should satisfy all my needs! The woman I am looking for, should be interested in our relationship evolving. Growing to the point of total commitment- marriage. I am hoping to find that one special woman that I can grow old with.


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1/30/2017 8:51:27 AM

A theory about man

If we were to theorize man as an animal, he would most likely be like a Squirrel. The one animal that is so fun to watch at times! That so many people have fun with by making them do crazy and goofy things!

Man as a Squirrel
From the very first time he gets a real "nut", (being with someone intimately). He then begins constantly running around from bush to bush, hoping he will get a nut.

He does this until he finds a bush that he likes. One that gives him nuts, and sometimes teases and plays with him. Making him work for the nuts he gets. Most Squirrels enjoy this interaction, but they still hope and search for that one special bush.

That one special bush that lets him have a nut whenever he wants. That gives him multiple holes to enjoy his nut in. That sometimes teases and plays with him, giving him what he wants and needs. In return he gives the same back, hopefully giving more back than he received. That provides him an environment that he can flourish in and grow, again hopefully he returns that back even more. Then at some point, when he tires of running back and forth. He moves closer to his bush, so he can protect it. Nourishing it, and himself at the same time. Taking care of the bushes needs, as the bush is taking care of his.

Unfortunately there are some Squirrels out there that use the bush as a playground, and something that they just use. Damaging it or destroying it. Making it more difficult for the bush to allow another Squirrel to enjoy the possible gifts that bush has to potentially offer.


Most men are like that!
But unfortunately men sometimes forget the needs of the one he is with. He only looks out for himself, and that causes problems down the road for everyone else.

Women can be the same way! I won't discriminate!
Women tend to have an advantage- they have the things that most all men desire. And most men will do whatever it takes to have access to what a woman has.

I heard a saying a while back.

"A male baby spends approximately 9 months growing inside a woman's belly. Then he is pushed out into the real world. As a young baby- he has two warm breasts to snuggle in. They provide him with nourishment, by suckling on them. They provide him with comfort, by him sucking on them, touching and holding them, and a soft place to sleep.

After growing up for many years, learning about life and eventually love. He then spends the rest of his life- doing his best to get back what he once had. Breasts to play with and suck on, and to get at least part of himself back into a pussy!"

I'm sure a lot of women would agree with these thoughts and opinions. Maybe even a few men too.


12/19/2016 10:29:35 AM
One of the worst feelings in the world for a man. Even worse than getting hit in the balls!
At least that pain will subside within a few hours or a day.

I'm going through right now! 

 It's finding out that the person you were seeing for almost three months.
That you were completely respecting her wishes and desires to go slowly. 
That she wanted to wait to have actual intercourse and penetration.
Seeing each other for two months before she said she was ready and it would happen when the time is right.

Well the signals she kept giving when I tried, was not the right time yet.

We broke up right at the three month anniversary.

I found out just over a month later this.

 Less than a week after we broke up, she was seeing another man.
Around two weeks later, she was sleeping with him!

It really made me think! And realize-
"Good Guys almost ALWAYS finish last!!!!

Its the good guys that always get dumped on!

Its the good guys hearts that always get broken!


Im always gonna be a good guy!  I can't change that about me!
But at least now I know why my heart always hurts so much!

A Good Guy!

12/15/2016 6:17:44 AM

What is extremely sad- you connect with a wonderful woman. She is a Little/Baby Girl. Everything seems to be going OK. I even write her a fairly detailed fantasy first time together letter. Which she loved!

Then I realize, that she is too immature and too childish! In every way of Normal/Vanilla life! She doesn't comprehend that a budding, flowering, and growing relationship requires constant attention. It needs- to be nurtured!

If you can't take 5 minutes out of one day to say- Hi, how are you? Ask a question and give an answer to a previous question. She never really gave it any effort! All because your life and fun times are more important than the relationship you just entered into and started!

Maybe I'm better off-

At least I found out that I would probably be a great "Daddy"


12/11/2016 11:21:36 AM
I have just been made aware of the fact that I could be an amazing "Daddy"

Because of my being a Sensual Dom/Master?

Maybe it makes me more able to understand the needs and desires.

Who knew!

Maybe I will find out that the woman of my dreams and fantasies, that I describe in my profile. Is actually a Little Baby Girl.

12/5/2016 6:53:34 PM
Went tonight to my first Munch. Had a nice time, met some very nice people. I'm looking forward to the next time I get the chance to go to another one.

11/20/2016 9:06:32 AM
Please understand something-
I am searching for that one special woman. 

If you seek, want or expect to be had by more than one man. 
Please keep looking!

I am not interested in women that are not willing to give themselves completely and only to one man. I am not interested in sharing the woman I am with with another man.
So if you call or classify yourself as a "Slut", "Whore", or any other term that indicates your desire to be used by multiple men. Pass me by!

 I am partially open to letting her be with another female- if that is what she desires. But that would only happen after we have built a lot of trust and a strong relationship. 

If you read my profile- you will find out I'm not well endowed, and I have a few issues.
The issues are manageable with understanding from each of us. 

Finally- my current circumstances at home. Not sure when that might change, but would like to make new friends! Maybe- if I'm lucky enough, I will find that special woman that would be willing to share some intimate times with. Until my circumstances change.

11/12/2016 2:12:02 PM
Update- The new Sub I was seeing, it didn't work out. It was more me than her.
Mainly my circumstances at home, and being too much of a gentleman with her.


8/20/2016 7:58:03 AM
Met a nice woman, a vanilla submissive. She is submissive, naive and has not been respected. We are taking it slowly, and I have already taken her to new experiences. Being a Sensual Dom has its advantages! I've had her moaning and screaming in pleasure. She is already worried about how much pleasure and other nice things I'm gonna do to her! In return, she already has some very nice things planned for me, with my approval. She read my dream fantasy woman, and plans on becoming her and more. Looks like dreams and fantasies can come true!

6/26/2016 3:16:47 PM
Why is it so hard to find a nice Sub/Slave that wants a caring Sensual Dom/Master? That wants to love and be loved. That wants to spend the rest of his life with a woman that also wants the same. That wants a woman that will do anything to make him happy, and in return will do whatever it takes to make her happy. A woman that is willing to help me learn and explore the many facets of BDSM. If you read my profile and journal, you should get a really good idea of the woman I seek. I'm so curious about so many things, and right now I have no one to explore them with.

6/11/2016 8:09:37 AM
After having read many profiles, I need to add this to the long list of who I hope to find. I prefer a mostly monogamous relationship, I may consider adding another female. If the woman I find is bisexual. I read profiles of Subs and Slaves wanting to be used by many. That's not for me, I am not interested in sharing or letting my Sub/Slave be used by another male.

5/25/2016 6:28:11 PM
3 weeks ago,I spent the evening and morning with a wonderful submissive woman I met on another site. She is almost 20 years older than me, and extremely beautiful and sexy. A bit bigger in the waist than I prefer, but her sexiness and beauty makes up for it. We got to know each other, and enjoyed each other. I loved her big breasts, and the taste of her pussy. I also loved her touching me and sucking on me. I did things to her that she had never done before. I taught her some things she had never done or tried. She enjoyed and loved it. I truly enjoyed our time together, and wished it could have lasted even longer. She did help me understand some things about me and my ED issues. It's kinda both ED and performance issues. The first time together, I might not be able to perform. But after the first time being together. It eases up some, the more times we are together. The more it eases, and my performance increases. Unfortunately, I haven't heard back from her. I think the distance, and that I am not fully available to be with her at any time has made her hesitant to get back to me. It might also be that the medical problem she has, that became acute because of our time together. It's a shame- she was a wonderful Submissive! And an amazing lover.

1/20/2016 9:25:47 AM
I have been browsing profiles ("Female" switch's, submissive's, slaves and a few Domme's), reading the good, the bad, and the ugly of the BDSM lifestyles. At least what some of the "females" on Collarspace are looking for or want. If you read my profile, you'll know I'm still fairly new to this and maybe kinda on the tame/mild side. Don't be judging someone without first getting to know them. Since I was young, I have always had a vivid and overactive imagination. I have had dreams and fantasies that would give even the most hardcore Masochistic and Sadistic people, wet dreams or nightmares! Remember the old saying- "It's always the shy quite ones you have to watch out for!!" I don't want anything that hardcore. I would love to just find a woman that wants a monogamous (one on one) relationship. Yes I'm open to the idea of another woman, if the woman I find is Bisexual and she wants to satisfy that need. I have read profiles of females that want to be slutted out. They want to be used and abused by many men. That's fine for them, but not me. The woman for me- be it switch, submissive, slave or whatever. There must be love, trust and respect involved in the relationship(Both ways). I believe that most of the relationships/lifestyles you have or want, it won't last without love, trust and respect. There are some relationships/lifestyles that this doesn't fully apply to. I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman I find. I don't care what age she is, what race she is, or if she is pretty or ugly. I want us to be happy and fulfilled together. I am open to the possibility of having children, if she wants them or it happens. I mentioned in my profile I would like to find a woman that would help guide me to be the perfect Master/Dom for her. In part because I still a bit new to this, and because it will help us both grow together. If I find my special woman, and she doesn't live near me. I would help her with relocating to me. But don't expect me to do or pay for it all by myself. Especially if you live outside the USA. Before considering on relocating, we must meet in person first. If I find someone, and the relationship progresses. At some point I want us to video record a statement. It would consist of what our limits are at that time, what we expect to happen, and what we agree to happen. With an agreement that the relationship may progress past what we initially agreed to. I don't want either of us to get in trouble, or cause each other trouble if law enforcement, the courts, or anything else gets involved or happens.

1/9/2016 5:58:46 PM
In my profile I have the woman of my dreams. Do I wish I can find her? YES! Do I believe in my mind and heart I will actually find her? I doubt it. I have read many profiles, and it seems most of the women that come close to what I have dreamed about. They either live too far away, or do not want to be restricted to just one man. I would prefer a straight female, but have included bisexual females in my search. I am open to including another female, not for me. I am a very understanding man, and with the right woman- I can be so much more. The woman I dream of and wish I can find- submissive and/or slave.. Must be both my friend and lover, be open and honest with me. I am interested in some TPE, it is my hope that the woman I hope to meet will or would be willing to have a normal job. But when we get home, behind the front door we change. I have mentioned that I am fairly new to this lifestyle, but have had some past experiences with submissive women. All I ask for is some understanding and guidance at times. I want to be the perfect Dom/Master, and can't be that without communication.

11/29/2015 10:45:10 AM
Why does it seem that so many on here are a bit stuck up. I have contacted and been contacted on here. We have chatted some, then nothing. What happened to respect? Or common curtesy? At least send a reply back saying that you are no longer interested. Everyone has feelings! And when you say to someone that you love and want what they have written in their profile. The hope meter sky rockets. Then crashes when there is a sudden loss of communication.

11/15/2015 9:45:28 AM
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 Age: 20
 Boulder, Colorado