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Looking for a playmate..or hopefully a partner......New to this scene, and the London area. A bit about me..... A gentle giant, shy at first.
I love to travel and experience different cultures. spent 20 odd yrs in sunny South Africa, so have a very mixed up accent. Love books and learning, studied at Uni Cumbria.
A bit of a closet Goth, i thought I had out grown it, but do you ever? Into endurance sports Running Swimming Cycling.....all three together!
No set spirituality but mainly Pagan. Love all women young and mature ( loved them all my life) prefer a woman with a bit of meat on their bones.
I recently discovered the joys of being a Daddy Dom, although am yet to find my lil girl, this is a role I am keen to pursue. My kinks are rather vanilla compared to others, but they are mine if they don't conform to yours tough find someone who does. I love pleasuring women I take pleasure in teasing and pleasing them. Always keen to meet and chat to new friends. Photography......... yes my voyeuristic nature takes over when viewing personal photo's. I think less is more..... sometimes the less we see of a person is more desirable. More or less, we're all afflicted with the psychology of the voyeur. Not in a strictly clinical or criminal sense, but in our whole physical and emotional stance before the world. Whenever we seek to break this spell of passivity, our actions are cruel and awkward and generally obscene, like an invalid who has forgotten to walk. ( Jim Morrison) Your true self can be known only by systematic experimentation, and controlled only by being known. (Francis Bacon)

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6/10/2013 9:17:53 AM

Relationships are hard on the soul. I'm grateful for my first BDSM /lationship it helped me grow as a person, gave me a better understanding of the scene. I found things I like and those I don't, within me and others.

It also quite surprisingly taught me about patience, and friendship. Take things slow, don't rush, don't confuze love with lust. Friendship, in the form of new friends who were there to help me ease the pain.

 

Love is giving up control. It’s surrendering the desire to control the other person. The two—love and controlling power over the other person—are mutually exclusive. If we are serious about loving someone, we have to surrender all the desires within us to manipulate the relationship.”

 

 

 

“The 'Dance of Love' is much more of a dialogue, one takes the lead and the other follows. One dictates a step and the other carries it out. One determines the direction, the other determines the distance travelled in a given figure. One sets the pace, the other reveals the grace. One understands the language of the other and knows what is coming next. The one leading leads with love and respect; never seeing the follower as being weak or inferior. And in the same manner, the one following follows with Trust and Submission; never feeling too big to be led or scared to jump. There is a blind assurance that someone is there to catch.” 
― Olaotan Fawehinmi


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mistressfhaye
 
 Age: 20
 Davenport, Florida