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johnreed69

**OUT OF INDIA, IN NEW ZEALAND, AND LOVING IT!!!!" I've been in the lifestyle since I was 16. I am primarily restricting myself these days to online control. Something, that I've grown in expertise with. I strongly believe that it's the heart of submission, not age or the body that matters. And that's what I look for from a sub/slave who submits to me. I seek her to be willing to surrender herself completely to me. Obedience, honesty, loyalty and trust are what I look for from a sub/slave. I have extensively researched and methodically prepared training methods which have shown fruitful results. My primary means of control is through webcam and skype, and I have found that this thoroughly enhances the experience of the lifestyle. I look for a real bond, a connection. I'm a loving and caring Master, however, strict to a great degree. I expect rules and rigorous training to be followed. That being said, I always allow for a degree of freedom, as every person is different. My methods with each sub/slave varies, depending on their wants, their needs, their desires, likes and dislikes. There is no fixed "magic formula" that a Dom can follow (This is an answer to the Doms who PM me asking what will work for an online relationship.) An online relationship, just like a real relationship, is a matter of the heart. It requires understanding, communication and the desire to please. I'm also very animalistic (does NOT mean I have a tail; neither does that mean I'm into bestiality), primal at times, and if stereotyped, would identify myself as a wolf. While I desire to run with a pack, I haven't found one yet, and would like to express my primal side more. Enough of talking about myself :) If you just want to talk, clarify, feel free to IM me. I'm never to busy to talk to people interested in the lifestyle. Favourites Quotes, snippets: These are views from Masters in the lifestyle who share my thoughts. I have had the pleasure of knowing some of them personally, others through friends, and others only through the Internet. Feast on these thoughts, and if you share these views, feel free to talk to me. “It takes a Man, a real man to understand that his slave is something more precious than all the wealth in the world. She has given him her submission for she believes he is trustworthy, honest, truthful, honourable and possesses both integrity and kindness. In his hands, she gives her being. He holds her health, her well-being, her happiness, her life itself. With a single glance, he can reduce her to tears and her world roiling with misery as she wonders what she did wrong. With the touch if a hand on her hair he can lift her to a state is bliss and ecstasy. Kneeling at his feet naked she is in heaven, It takes a real Man to accept this responsibility and hold it truly without guile and misuse, It takes great courage and a huge heart to give yourself completely to such a man. Both must be worthy of the other. Such a master will want to and indeed work hard on knowing his slave, her needs, her wants, her secret desires. At this stage, they work as one, complementing one another and yet two individual people. She knows she can speak to him of her problems and gently put things right when he makes mistakes for she too knows he is a man and thus not perfect. When he is at work, she misses his masculine presence. He too misses her being near him so that their time together is complete.. Are such men really walking this earth? I have been blessed by knowing a number of them and their girls.”
© Master Iron Bear 2007 “It is certainly no crime to depict the bizarre ideas that nature inspires.” – Marquis De Sade “There’s nothing either good or bad … but thinking makes it so!” – William Shakespeare “There are two kinds of strengths: the strength to lead, and the strength to follow; the strength to control, and the strength to yield. There are two kinds of power: the power to strip away another’s soul bare, and the power to stand naked.” © Yaldah Tovah Me, Myself and I This is for all the people who kept asking me to update my profile with details about my non-kink life. I'm doing my Masters in Business, and love educated women. As far as my interests go, I love reading and writing, bit of a Grammar Nazi actually ;) And I'm not as snobbish as my profile makes me sound. Love humour, and just having fun. Major gamer, and love games like Skyrim( who doesn't), Sleeping Dogs, HoN, Call of Duty, and what not :) I also love the outdoors; being a major adrenaline junkie, bungy jumping, skydiving and parasailing are some of my favourite activities :) Feel free to talk to me; I try and reply to most of the messages I get, and I'm always polite. (That's what they all say) :) Oh, and I love myself :) A lot. Self obsessed, narcissistic, friendly, social and outgoing. I'm gonna stop sounding like a fuckin' thesaurus now. Love living for the moment, not one bit of seriousness, well YOLO!!! All rudeness apart, I've been told I'm charming, fun and a bundle of awesomeness (The last part's kinda made-up) ;) Yes, I know there are no pics of me on CollarMe. But having explained so much about me being in a sex repressed country, I don't think further explanation is necessary. Talk to me, however, and if I like you, I'll give you my facebook link, so you can check out pictures. WARNING Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or media coverage: You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile content, neither IMAGES nor WORDS (including those posted as writings or to group discussions), in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and personal property, and you will be subject to legal ramifications.
emily946
 
 Age: 22
 Houston, Texas