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If I've looked at your profile and haven't reached out to you, that doesn't necessarily mean I'm uninterested. Let's see who has the nerve to reach out to me.
I am interested in a FLR. If you do not understand what this means, find out a general gist of what it is before contacting me. The NON-Porn type. This isn't a fantasy to me. It's legit. Don't waste my time nor yours if you don't truly want a FLR.
I prefer hwp men, maybe a slight pudge, but not overweight nor obese.
Also, learn what it means to have a conversation.
If you don't ask proper questions in return, don't expect me to reply.
A non-smoker and non-drug user is a must!
PICS NEEDED IN MESSAGES.
DO NOT contact me unless you can attach a picture, (on here, NOT through email or texting) after all, you know what I look like, so why not return the gesture).
Don't be shy. Face pics (clear and closer up - no shadows nor should I have to squint to make you out) attached to YOUR body - rated G people!
If you can't meet in person, do not bother to try to initiate an intimate relationship. Friends are one thing, but to have a sincere, true bf/gf romantic-type with kink then you WILL need to have your own transportation and be able to drive and meet in person.
If we are to develop any type of relationship that could go from friend to more, you need to be within a rather short travel period. (Within 2 hours would be good, under an hour would be best, and you would have to be able to travel to me.)
An in-person relationship is mandatory.
I am a woman of many talents, emotions, thoughts, opinions and needs. People change as they learn and become wiser from life, knowledge and age; this profile does not outright define me, and it can only give a glimpse of who I am. If what you read sounds interesting, shoot me a message, if not, feel free to still shoot me a message. You never know what we could have in common. There's nothing wrong with just having a nice, innocent conversation.
*Age preference for women 21-45.
*Age preference for men 25-40.
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Yes, this may be long, but well worth it. So enjoy!
About me:
If you're only looking to get your dick wet, to "hook up" or get laid, keep going. I am SO not interested in little boys looking for sex. I want ADULTS looking for a legit friendship that could turn into more. Especially submissives and slaves looking to be at my beck and call.
Hello, I am a 5’3, 29 year old BBW. Open-minded, spiritual-esque, Lady in search of a partner to build from a friendship. Male preferable, but definitely not opposed to women. I have brown hair and brown eyes. I am a light, social drinker, a bit quiet to begin with, fun, sarcastic, love to laugh and enjoy a night in more than a night out.
I believe romanticism and attraction come in many forms. I am just trying to see what's out there while focusing on being truthful and open with anyone who I become involved with and them having the same respect for me.
I am looking for someone (this includes friends as well) romantic, communicative, sweet, understanding, caring, a bit adventurous but likes to just stay home more often then not. Someone patient, mature (in their mindset, not their actual age.) Someone who can enjoy the silence with just as much as holding a conversation. And an added bonus would be someone who likes to flirt and text too. It's not all about the physical, there's more to intimacy than just physical sex. So much more.
Someone who understands that romanticism, sensuality and intimacy are not just physical please step to the front of the line!
I am into movies (watching at home or friend's houses, not so much going to the theater). I like to hike (on well-defined paths. I have a huge fear of Lyme disease ever since my friend developed the disease and has talked to me about it, and I see what she goes through), I like to bike ride (bicycles and motorcycles. I have my motorcycle license but no bike, but enjoy riding behind someone who can handle their vehicle.) I like to take walks, LOVE to play games, and I love to read (mostly paranormal and young adult or a mix of the two. If you wanna chat about books or need some good recommendations, feel free to ask). I also like to sing and dance (in the privacy of my own home or car.)
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Looking for:
A friendship that could lead to a romantic relationship that would evolve into you being my sub/bottom/slave.
In the best of all worlds I would only have one partner who fulfilled both my vanilla and BDSM desires. A submissive or slave who fulfilled all my needs, but since that doesn't seem to want to manifest for the moment, I may have other people I see. You on the other hand shall not. The only exceptions to this is if you come to me already belonging to someone else, or if I so choose to allow you to be with others.
I enjoy the dashingly Romantic type, Geeky Cute-types step to the front of the line!, Gamers (board and card more then video), Quick witted and Humorous, Animal Lovers (NOT beastiality) Good Cleaners, Jack-of-All Trades, Bikers with the heart of a Poet, and/or Beautiful Sensual People. (My type of beautiful, not societies.)
Anyone I choose must have ample time to devote to me and to their training. At first it will be a BARE MINIMUM OF ONCE A WEEK unless it does not suit my schedule. But dates will be made up. I realize that we all have jobs and lives, but I expect to be one of your top priorities. I'm not going to make someone a priority in my life who only makes me an option in theirs.
My ideal relationship would be one in which I am with a submissive - loving, intelligent, doting, and service-orientated man who cares more about my pleasure than his own. I would own him and use or not use his body for my pleasure depending entirely upon my mood - for the pervs out there, this does not mean all sexual pleasures. If this is where your mindset is, move on.
That being said, when it does come to sexual encounters, I'd also completely dictate when he is allowed to do certain things. Chastity and orgasm denial would be MANDATORY.
Other alpha men would probably tease a little about being whipped but they wouldn't know the extent of it. Other women would be envious of how caring and attentive my boyfriend is and compare their boyfriends to mine. My Mistress rules would be adhered to at all times. There would be public and private rules.
I'd expect all of my orders to be adhered to promptly and with enthusiasm.
What I say goes.
Eventually, I would like to find someone that fits my vanilla and BDSM mix, that I could train as my sub to learn to adhere to and grow to be constantly aware of and anticipate my needs, wants and desires. For example, if I say, "I'm cold," they would get up and get me a blanket without being told to. Simple things like this is what matter a lot to me. Being attentive is key!
What I am most looking for is a "partner" that is in an unequal state with me and thrives on the double standards I would set in our relationship, which could basically be summed up as, "I do whatever I want to do and you do what I tell you to do." I have every confidence in myself that I could obtain this with the right willing person(s).
Mainly I want freedom and the ability to really be creative with this fetish. I LOVE how creative and open it is. I would constantly want to change it up and would greatly prefer quality partners who will learn and explore with me as I see fit.
If you want to contact me, use "Raining Monkeys" at the beginning of your message. I will know you at least skimmed my profile and saw this part of it. And if you have skimmed this much, you should go back and actually start reading from the beginning.
I am NOT looking for a simple on-the-whim play partner. I am looking to build friendships and connections and add the sub/slave part in if we connect on an emotional and intelligent level. So if you are thinking you'll get your kicks from me when you feel like it, or to help you in any sexual way, think again. Do your research and learn what a TRUE sub/slave commitment is.
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What I look for in a Submissive/Slave:
A partial list in no particular order;
- Loyalty
- Honesty
- Respect
- Communication
- Submissiveness
- Obedience
- Honor
- Discipline
- Passion
Some things I absolutely WON’T do:
- Accept lies. You lie, you’re done. PERIOD.
- Extreme pain
- Fluids
- Anything with animals (besides treating a human like one)
- I will not be your dirty little secret.
- I will not be a stop-gap measure for you whilst you search for your "One".
- I will not help you cheat on your wife/Mistress/Significant Other.
If you're 420 friendly, I don't care what you do on your own time until you become my official sub/slave. You must then ask for permission.
Absolutely NO smokers of cigarettes, cigars, vaporizers or any other method of smoke besides pot.
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Communication in all its various forms is of the utmost importance in any of my relationships. An essential ingredient in a successful relationship is the ability to express one's wants and needs to the other partner.
Intelligence is required and thoughtfulness cherished. Please be at least 25, and no older than 40. Please know what you want vis a vis a BDSM relationship.
I don't like to do a lot of back and forth on the computer, so please be prepared to meet in public and yes, you will be coming to me. I do not ask for monetary tribute, but I DO require a single white rose or white gardenia at a first meeting as a sign of respect.
Please no mail from other countries, if you're going to relocate, do it first and then we can talk. I'm am looking for 24/7, but am not opposed to other timeframes. Know that I may choose to play in public or privately at the drop of a hat, so if you need to hide your predilections, please look elsewhere.
Please, no married people unless your spouse knows what you are up to, and make no mistake, I will speak with them.
If all you're looking for is kinky sex, move on. (This is NOT 50 Shades B.S.)
Finally, if you have ANY problems serving a BBW don't waste my time, just click the back arrow and don't give it a second thought.
A positive attitude is a MUST.
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If you think an FLR is like you find in pornos, MOVE ON. You'll just end up with whiplash from the reality of what it truly can and does involve. Take a step in the real world and turn that b.s. off.
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DO NOT message me thinking I am your instant sex toy.
Sex will be off the table until or IF I choose to add it.
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| Age: 21 |
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