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35 years of being a submissive at heart, and not a lot of experience to show for it. Female superiority feels very natural but so does being a partner in exploration with someone who knows her role is to lead

Would love to chat with anyone "of a certain age" (f/m d/s) who's figured out how this interest fits in their life.  Ideally would like to explore with dom F. on-line/e-mail. Meeting someone in my area for a "munch" would be great too.

My goal in a relationship with a Dominant woman would be to figure out what you desire / want / need.  I'm interested in service to you, control by you, and finding that thing that makes you smile.

9/22/2005 4:21:02 PM
I read a post recently wondering "Why we do this..."  Which got me back to the subject for myself... why do I do this.

Well, I don't "do" much at all, which is part of the problem, now isn't it.  But what is it that has kept me coming back to being a submissive for 35+ years (then there's the old discussion "When did you first..."  I'll save that for another time...)

For me, it's a matter of being the object of someone's attention.  And I think I mean both parts of that... "object" and "attention."  The worst thing I can think of in a relationship is to be ignored.

So I think what keeps me coming back is the fantasy that I could do something for someone that would make them want to hold me, touch me, make me know I was theirs.  I guess I want to be owned and know it.

Huh.... go figure...
sweethudaya
 
 Age: 36
 London, United Kingdom