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I look for total openness and honesty in a slave. As a master I am rarely open, but I expect you to share every feeling you have. I will listen patiently, but never act according to your wish necessarily. I may counter your wish, but to avoid a repetitive and easy to predict pattern of turned-around desires I am more likely to completely disregard your state of mind and simply do as I planned. This may at times be very pleasant for you. I'm known to reward behavior which is extremely directed to anticipating my needs, constantly looking for what I might want and need, becoming a specialist at reading me and anticipating anything I might look for. For example if you are in bondage you can point me to the fact you are not at the most uncomfortable position for yourself yet, such as a knee which is not properly twisted to the extremest painful position. Things I may not be able to observe and which you know I simply cannot be aware of because they are psychologically fearful for yourself are most appreciated to be added in the mix. An example is if you are afraid of small spaces, or suffocation, we can routinely abuse your fears by making bondage experiences truly panicky for you.
I'm a pleasant and educated man, and my friends like to be in my company. I challenge things but soft spoken and in a nice way, not letting others feel bad about themselves if they overlooked things. I'm not an abusive person, also not in a relationship with you. I'm sweet and sadistic at the same time, which is why it's important for me to find a woman that truly is deeply masochistic and giving, and has pleasure in seeking the maximum discomfort for herself, and giving up her darkest fantasies and fears, so we have joint pleasure in abusing this trust. Understanding that it isn't true abuse, as it is shared with the intention to be used, in a humble position as a slave.
I believe the way to build up things is to get to know each the way a normal relationship starts; falling for each other, feeling love and passion, doing things together, followed soon by this glowing pleasure of seduction and your giving.
Any nationality or location can react. I travel a lot so I can visit you multiple times to get to know each other with appropriate time, before your eventual relocation to Amsterdam (the Netherlands).
Yours possibly,
Jan
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