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james78x

I am a 34 year old man who has spent the last 7 years living in China and has just returned to England, and am thinking about settling down and getting married. I have not always been satisfied with my sex life in previous relationship and have been thinking a lot about what I want from a partner. I would like to meet a woman who is capable of being both submissive and dominant and who enjoys having sex with other men and possibly women. I would not necessarily be present, but would want to be kept informed and enjoy talking about her encounters. I do not want someone who is only interested in me for money or who treats me badly in everyday life, instead I want a loving relationship with someone who is sexually very open. I am not into painful BDSM, but I enjoy light play including pegging and watersports and would expect this to be part of our sex life. I would like to be able to take it in turns with my lover to take on a more dominant role and to be creative in bed. Obviously I also want the normal things in a relationship as well, for my partner to be kind, well-educated and to (eventually) want a family, perhaps wanting more than this is being greedy. I have no hang-ups about the nationality of my lover, but I did spend a lot of time in China and do speak some Chinese, so I am interested in Chinese profiles as well as English ones. I would enjoy having e-mail conversations with people first to try and find someone suitable.