Me:

I am a man, single, born 1956, who has had a few, brief relationships where BDSM has worked, my girlfriends have often not understood how important this is to me. It has been awhile now since I had a play mate.

In real life my guiding principles are tolerance, solidarity, equality and compassion. Other interests are technology, a real nerd!, history, reading (bookworm), the outdoors and traveling.

I like role playing where I can play dominant roles like interrogator, doctor or submissive roles like captured spy or being kidnapped and held for ransom. I am not a dominant or a submissive, I am both I guess!

My biggest turn-on is bondage to be bound or to bind others. I would really like to be locked up in a cage. Ropes, belts and chains to restrain me are also good stuff. I also like to switch so that I can restrain and torment my victim.

I have a certain fascination with womens underwear, especially pantyhoses. To wear them is both degrading and a pleasure. A wonderful combination. Naturally a woman looks great in her underwear too.

You:

The princess of my dreams is a woman who shares my convictions and who appreciates BDSM-sex. Respect for different opinions is important. I appreciate inner qualities, to be able to see beneath the surface.

I have not yet found my soul mate, but I have always found it easy to become friends with women. I enjoy the quiet conversation and ability to laugh. I am in no hurry as I like to go slowly and take each day step by step.

I do appreciate when women take the first step, I am not afraid of strong women. So if you find me interesting or just want to ask me something, please send me a mail. I love to get mail and I promise to answer everyone I get!