Still a novice, but not a virgin R/T submissive anymore! 
It is interesting to me to find out that what you read  is sometimes what you get.  Recently i was finially able to expereince  the beginnings of what i am looking for.  While i have yet to find the ONE, i am learning exactly what it is i want from this ONE. 
i am a submissive, and i want a Dominant Athletic Man who wears his Mastery like a cloak.  It would be natural for him to recieve me as a natural submissive woman.  Intelligent, reserved, militarilistic... think OIC and you have Him.  What he gets: intelligent, whimsical, adventurist, professional, very sensitive and reactive submissive female. 
i have found that i like being played with, as well as learning how to please... i like serving and submitting my mind and soul... i wish to honor and care for the ONE. 
As i said, recently i have finially gained my first insights into this lifestyle.  What i found is that it is easy for me to slip into submission, i have very sensitive tactile responses, and i want the ONE to be experienced in many forms of play.  i also found that i want consideration for my inexperience, safety is a must!  i found that i like slow progress into rougher play and that i can learn to love that which intimidates me.
Yes, virgin submissive no more... now i liken it to a kid in a candy shop!! So much to do, so much to learn and so much to experience! 
jadeddreams