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irishplaymate

Are you "a lady at the dinner table and a whore in the bedroom"?

Do you seek ropes & whips when playing, and chivalrous behaviour when not?

Are you mid 20's to mid 40's

Interested in life and successful at what you do?

Do you enjoy good conversation, red wine, wind-swept beaches, firelight, snuggling on the sofa, walking in the rain, theatre, thought-provoking books, trashy novels, Ella Fitzgerald, Bach, Radio 4, silent companionship and energetic debate?

Do you appreciate that one can be hedonistic without being shallow, intelligent without being cynical?

Are you irreverant, with a keen sense of the ridiculous, and yet have a chameleon-like ability to fit in when required?

If so, perhaps we should talk?

I'm an attractive, sane, articulate, successful, married 42 yo straight male dom in search of my female equivalent.

Looks may not be the most important thing, but we at least need to find each other acceptably attractive, so let's start with the easy bit. I'm 6'0, medium build, short hair, grey/green eyes, trimmed goatee. I'm told I'm attractive. I never know what to tick on those ads that ask for 'Dress' as I wear everything from jeans and t-shirt through smart casual to suit-and-tie, depending on circumstances and whim.

I'm self employed. My work is important to me, but I believe life is to be enjoyed. I enjoy both the simple things - walking along a beach, flying a kite, sitting in a pavement cafe chatting & watching the world go by. I also enjoy some of life's material pleasures.

I like good food, both eating out and cooking, and adore red wine!

I love conversation. I'm insatiably curious about all manner of things, and I love ideas, opinions, discussion, debate, exploration.

Sexually, Women intrigue me, each one is different and unique. I like nothing better than to try to discover and explore my lovers deepest desires and fantasies. I'm a Dom who enjoys creating erotic adventures, whether via elaborate role-plays or something simple & spontaneous. It's unlikely that we'd be compatible if bondage wasn't a key turn-on for you; other things are more negotiable.I am a firm believer in safe, sane and consensual play.

I have a keen sense of the distinction between fantasy and reality, and the importance of communication.

Want to know more? Drop me a line ...

My Ideal Person:
I am seeking the passion and mystery that can only be found in fantasy untempered by familiarity. I seek a mystery lover, submissive and willing to explore their sensual nature. I don't need to know your life history, your past faults and failings. I am only interested in the moments we share as I guide and share your erotic responses. Be who you always wanted to be, I wont judge you or expect to be judged. Submit to me and together we will explore the boundaries of our sensual beings. I am at all times healthy and safe Please note that I am married and therefore require that you value discretion.

Ophelia1969
 
 Age: 36
  Oregon