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| Hello everyone and welcome to my profile. my name is al. i am a 53 year old single white man, who is submissive to Black Women. i live in New Jersey, near New York City. my reason for creating this profile is to meet a dominant Black Woman who's caring, loving, and sane. The goal, to be enslaved by her in a Black Female led relationship, and if she wants, a Black Female led marriage.
my user name tells you much about me. i obey Black Women. i do. More than that i want to obey them...need to obey them. To me, Total Power Exchange (TPE) is what a D/s relationship is all about. Without TPE, it is a game, an empty shell, a vehicle for some kinky sex, and nothing more. It is the surrender of power and control that makes it meaningful to me, and that loss of power, that feeling of truly being owned is what i crave.
i want a relationship in which i hear your commands, wishes, and desires, and obey them. A relationship in which you tell me what to do and i do it. Obedience is the soul of submission, and you won't have to force me to obey through threats, fear, or beatings. i want to obey you. In fact, you could say my motivation is almost selfish. Since i enjoy being obedient i am enjoying myself even if the task demanded isn't something i want to do. i also enjoy being required to ask/beg permission from you before i can do anything. The degree of this control will be set by you, subject to change without notice. At a minimum i think you should know where i am, what i'm doing, and whom i am doing it with.
Having said that, let me add that it doesn't mean i will do anything. Anybody who tells you that is lying. Nobody can or will do anything, nobody sane anyway. That's why i seek someone who's caring, loving, and sane. Someone who is in control of herself as well as in control of me. Absolute power requires a lot of self control.
What won't i do? Well, i am not a suitable match for a true sadist. While i accept your right to punish me, and expect it, extreme beatings, torture, and severe pain are just things i can't give anyone. Some spanking and bitch slapping are things i accept, but don't enjoy, making them good punishments. Cuckholding is another. If you need a host of lovers, slaves, and other servants, we're not a good match. i am loyal and faithful and expect the same. That pretty much covers it.
i am service oriented. i will clean, do the laundry, housework and other domestic chores. As a Black Woman i believe you are superior to me. i want you to believe that too, and act like it. That doesn't mean i want you to be a mean bitch, or hate me, or be cruel and unreasonable. Acting like you're out to prove how much misery you can inflict isn't dominance, it's just cruelty. If your ex-husband or boyfriend did you wrong, i don't want you to take it out on me. i want a relationship that is based on mutual love, not hate. i don't believe a Black Female led relationship needs to be based on hate, cruelty, or greed.
Yeah, i like kinky sex...vanilla sex too, but that isn't what you build a relationship on. Yes, i am not a monk and have my list of fetishes i enjoy. i like all forms of body worship, and love being Queened. i like Golden Showers too. i like to kneel and bow down to my Ebony Queen, worship and adore her, but most of all i want to love her, make her feel special, powerful, and in charge...because she is deserving of nothing less.
The photos on my profile show what i think the dynamic in a Black Female-white male relationship should be. i hope you find them in good taste. Above all i want to be respectful of you. Should you decide to contact me, you can count on being treated with respect.
So, if you've been frustrated and disapointed with the submissives you've met so far because...
1- They think submission has something to do with you performing kinky sexual acts on them
2- Have the IQ of a turnip
3-Are disrespectful
4-Lie like a rug
5-Shower once a month.
6-Are losers with no job, income, or prospects and want you to support them.
7- Are people with no social graces who you wouldn't want to be caught dead with. let alone introduce to your friends and family.
8- Won't introduce you to thier friends and family.
9-Are located in Afarawayistan and just want to come here.
Give me a try...you might be surprised...pleasantly.
If i am of interest to you please drop me a line and let me know. i'll send you my photo and we can talk. Comments and advice are always welcome.
Thanks again for reading this. God bless you all.
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my profile is complete, for the time being. i will make changes from time to time to reflect suggestions, and as my situation changes. God bless you all. |
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| Age: 21 |
| Manchester,
United Kingdom |
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