Intelligent, but married dom. married to a vanilla lady who does not know about my interests and has no interest in this scene. Love my wife but love the scene also.

I have a reasonable amount of experience with this, but would like to continue growing in the role. I would be open for play if the right person comes along but only looking for NSA fun. Discretion is key, I don't want the whole world to know what goes on in my life and will respect the same for you.

Most of my friends say I'm thoughtful, but focused. I'm ready to meet someone who excites me, whether she's undressed, dressed up or dressed down. I'm ready to strike up a conversation that doesn't begin or end with a cheesy pick-up line, something that has real content to it. I'm ready for something Real. I want to share my wit and my charm with someone who makes me smile without really trying.

I'm described as being cute (if only they knew the other side of me), and I'm told I have a lovely smile. I'm medium build with meat on my stomach. That doesn't mean fat is just means I have some meat.

I am an intelligent, deep thinker and love nothing better than intelligent and sometimes serious and deep conversations. My vanilla interests include the football, theatre, politics, religion, writing academic articles and socialising.

The lady I'm looking for is thoughtful and caring, and sincerely ready to see how deep the water can be by jumping in head-first. She's willing to try new things and has a talent for making a bad day good, and a good day better. She wants to explore new ideas and delve into new adventures with another interesting human being by your side.

I have not attached a photo for discretion reasons but can supply one on request.