I'm definately a lot to handle. I am upfront about everything. I love the sensual side to D/s along with the pain. Oh btw I really enjoy anal sex as much as regular sex so if you don't we might not be well suited. (Yes men there are other men who see that hole as out only.... lol) I want a relationship with someone where inside the bedroom or scene I'm submissive but outside I'm your equal. I want a good balance of play and vanilla. Outside the bedroom I love to cook and I'm into the theater, politics, and dancing gets you points Oh I'm also a read-a-holic So if the idea of being cuddled up next to me reading and then putting the books down for a more sweaty activity turns you on... you might be for me. The most important qualities are honesty trust and someone educated. I am looking for someone who will understand my need to be equal outside the bedroom as much as my need to be controlled in it. Other than that someone who wants a relationship outside the bedroom as well. That means you are a republican, a christian, and have a real job and no getting a PhD doesn't count. Can't live up well then you aren't the one to tame me that is the truth. And yes I am a bit mouthy just need to be put in my place hehe I need a man who is at home both in the theater and at the football game. Who can talk politics with me or can be silly and make me laugh. You can go to church with me or out to a party where I am not allowed to wear underwear. Someone who desires being curlled up on the couch with me reading and the next minute making my bottom red is amazing. I am the oxymoron does my counterpart exist? Oh I am open to far away but since you are to be the one to take of me in more ways than one you best have the means to support a long distance relationship OH fyi, BTW I am not looking for an attached man who has a wife or a g/f he wants me to join in or help cheat on not interested. Also if you could be my father aka are more than 15 years my senior no offense but please look elsewhere as well.
Oh I'm also a read-a-holic 