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I'm attracted to women, grrlbois, trans men, and the occasional cis man, especially in the company of the above. (Look, het cis men are unlikely to hold my interest, to be honest, too many privileged dickheads to sort through.) Butches of any stripe make me hard, but I do like many androg/femme dom/mes. The rule of the cock and the fist are what sings for me when I'm down at your feet. I'm a cis female who doesn't take gender roles for granted and I'm very much into genderfuck play, and strapping itttt on.
I'm going up to Darwin for six months in May but I'm coming down to Melbourne pretty regularly during that time.
I'm both submissive and a masochist. I've played here and there, but have not yet been in an ongoing situation with a dom/me where I've had time to explore my submissiveness in detail. I am most definitely poly, and have a long term partner whom I often top. I'm not after anything exclusive but this doesn't preclude something intense between us if that is the way things go. Currently I don't have any hard limits or triggers - I'm pretty open to exploring many many wonderful dark desires I and my play partner/s may have. Sex of a dark bent is good too! I'm only after real life fleshskinblood play at the moment - no cyber.
I welcome play with two or more people, of varying power orientations. As a switch I think it'd be pretty hot to be "forced" to top/fuck/please another, or vice versa.
I'm open to people of varying ages, body types, dis/abilities,
cultural/racial backgrounds. Physically myself I'm quite tall, sort of curvy, pierced, thirty-one, pale and Irish, glasses, a bit goth, unruly blue hair shaved at the sides.
So I am eager for a whole range
of bdsm experiences, but these are some of my happy words: bondage, penetration, whipping, suspension, sensuality, needles, play-rape, handcuffs, servility, pleasing, humiliation, forced feminisation, breast binding, shibari, sensory deprivation, fisting, blood, being lent out, cages, exhibitionism, cocksucking, welts, play parties, hot wax, buttplugs, gags, fetish dressups... okay I could go on! What gets you hot? If you're serious about play in person (whether you're experienced and confident or a nervous beginner dom/me) drop me a line and let's chat a bit, see if our energies click!
I've been on collarme for a while as 'aliengrace' and met heaps of
great people that way (yay fellow kinksters), but decided it was time for a profile and username makeover! I'm a bit more into guys than I used to be, for instance. I occasionally do the scene thing, and I often go to 'Chains'.
I'm a no bullshit kind of person and I value mutual respect, especially when negotiating limits. I can be shy or bratty. I've a good sense of humour on me, and plenty of interests. Life to me is a glorious adventure!! I'm very open-minded. I don't tolerate fools gladly but I'm very approachable to anyone genuine wanting play. I'm also open to making real-life friends and am interested in chatting about sex/bdsm work as it's something I'm seriously considering. :)
Obligatory anti-spam disclaimer: Not into - men who think their phallus makes them inherently different from women, 'bi' women who aren't really sexually/emotionally interested in women, narcissistic personalities, people who insist I pay attention to them simply because I am sub-oriented, one sentence wonders, animals/kids/abuse, people who want free housework, chatting to people from overseas however nice they are - sorry!
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