Hmm, where to start? I've had this account for about a year now and I've come to realize that it's way past time to update my profile. I've known for 20 plus years that I wanted something more than the normal vanilla relationship, but I've always had trouble finding what I'm looking for - hence my account on CM. I'm looking to make new friends, learn more about the BDSM lifestyle, and hopefully find someone that wants the same things I do. I am dominant and a bit of a sadist, but I prefer to keep the kink in the bedroom (mostly). Outside the bedroom I like to have a more conventional relationship with someone that I love and care for. I have met many people here so far, some are amazing, some not so much, I'm sure that anyone that has spent time on CM will know what I mean. I will be back to add more info soon, if you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask