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Hello
I am a 40 year old arabian male seeking a service position. Could do part time. Very submissive,service oriented, polite, proper manners,butlerlike.
I have limited experience to none. I was born this way. Very submissive,service oriented. I like the idea of servants in the middle east. Kneeling, foot kissing, very respectful and subservient, seen but not heard,etc
I always looked at this arragement as a real job position. I would be the employee, and work for the employer. I would do things the way they want or accept consequences. What keeps me in such a position? I think it is the need. For example, if someone has a job, family, mortgage, they have to take the bosses attitude, orders,etc. They have no choice. The alternative would be far worse. The same goes for an arragement such as this. I know finding a position is hard. You have to stand out from the rest and once there, you much keep the position. It takes alot of work. So, I would accept things even if I didnt like to please my employer. For example, if I was ready to leave, tired and there friends stopped by and I was told to stay and serve drinks,food,clean up afterwards, I would. Because. I would not want to get on my employers bad side and the alternative would be far worse. I could be fired and have to find another position and ruin my chance for references. Plus I would want to please my employers and impress their freinds with my service.
I think alot of my responsibility as a servant is to make my employers life easier. Do the mundane,tedious, hard labor without eye rolling of attitude,without questioning exactly how they wish to have things done. For example, if i was too organize a closet with 50 pairs of shoes and tons of clothes, anyone can organize quickly, but I would ask if:
Should I shine the shoes,clean, wash clothes, organize,etc
This may take half a day to do correctly. That is if they want it done that way. The employers standards need to be met. I believe an employer should have the power to punish to help a servant reach these standards. I believe an arragement such as this shouldnt be fun for the servant,but actual labor.
If you can imagine how servant work for their employers in the middle east, that is what I need. Very submissive, quiet,seen but not heard. Only speak when spoken too, kneeling,foot kissing, bowing, proper verbiage, proper protocol.
Impressing your friends/family would be important because its a reflection on you. I think proper service protocol is important. For example, if a guest comes over, I would be enthusiatic to serve,etc. May I please get you a drink. May I please wash your car. Is there anything else, I can do. My pleasure. Thank you.
I would want them to wonder where you got me from. I have much experience in this area from working in hospitality,but would like to gain more experience.
for example, if I was to serve a dinner party, would I stand at attention while everyone eats in the dining room, or would you want me submissive and kneeling, or would I wait in the kitchen while you ring a bell. Things like this.
I also think its my job to anticipate needs and be proactive in a submissive way.
Have you ever been on a cruise line at dinner? The first night you may request green tea. One the second night, the green tea is there already without you asking. This is an example. I should know the likes and dislikes of the employers. This is very important. If the lady likes her foot kissing by the ankle or near her toes. Does she like me doing eye contact. Does she like her tea strong or not. I need to learn and be an expert of what my employers want and like. It is goal to be needed. I do know most dominants can get servants whenever they wish. They are disposable. I am aware. Its like having 1 job open for 100 employeers.
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