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Thank you again for such a wonderful response.
I'm no longer reading any more new emails, so please don't take the time. I'm having to delete them unopened now. Sorry, too many responses. Only those I've talked to already may contact me to now to keep reminding me of their interest and continue the screening process or to begin immediately. The first to fully convince me in real life, is the one who will be chosen.
Would like to meet all sincere individuals within the next three weeks. Let me know if you are serious. I leave it up to you to keep reminding me and show your sincerity by suggesting a time and day to meet in person.
My title says it all.
I wish there were a completely non-BDSM site where I could find one.........
Does anyone here know of one...?
I seek real life, long term or permanent only.
I should be able to find a great servant easily enough in church, but as we all know the "earthly churches" often aren't what they're supposed to be.
So, here I am.
The first day, out of curiosity I contacted a few people who seemed like a good fit from their profile. But it's easier for me if I don't make initial contact anymore. So only if you are certain you would like to do this kind of thing, long term or permanent only, follow the instructions below and respond. I will only review the emails sent to me. I want the individual to be pretty certain they want to do this after reading my ad. And I don't want to have to even glance at anymore pervy profiles!
If you think you want to be what I seek...it's best you understand my mindset fully so you can weed yourself out without ever responding at all if possible. I don't wish to waste even a moment of anyone's time and don't want mine wasted either.
So, to know more...
I'm not a Domme. I'll never be a sub. But we have to choose one or the other when creating a profile. I'm not into "the lifestyle" at all. I don't even know what that means and I'm not interested in knowing.
I just enjoy having a servant or voluntary slave.
Again, definitely PLEASE let me know if there is a better servant/slave site where I don't have to see any perversion, ugly black and plastic clothing or whips and chains!
I don't allow any of that around me. Or crossdressing, etc. It's just not my thing. I think it's ugly and dreary. And I don't like anything ugly or dreary in my life. I like happy, cheerful colors and soft pastels and muted pastels etc. Pretty and stylish clothing. Casual, classic, good taste and elegance. Not slutty or dark mood affects.
Some people like soft fluffy animal pets, as I do. Others find them annoying and don't want them anywhere around them. It's the same kind of thing. No offense to anyone intended. So, until I find a clean cut and pure servant/slave website, just ignore my ad if it annoys you.
Most of all please be fully aware: I'm not interested in any of the sexual, deviant or abusive behaviors...or having to punish anyone. Period. It's non-negotiable and will never change. I enjoy beautiful, happy living too much to bother with such things. I'm also not looking for a romantic or intimate relationship with a servant. So if any of those things are what you seek, don't contact me. Invest your time with someone who's a better fit for you.
A couple of guys here have asked to date me. I'm sorry, but I only date very successful, clean living (nothing hidden), completely single/unnattached, men of utter integrity from wonderful families with a long line of similar forebears. Just as I come from. I believe in being completely transparent and having nothing to hide, no dark past to come out of the closet from. Unfortunately, anyone here who is otherwise like that has already "experimented" with things that they would be ashamed to admit to their families and friends outside these circles. I have not, and never will.
And while I have no interest in dating submissive men (I'm attracted only to strong, successful, balanced real men) neither the men who I date nor any of my platonic guy friends would ever think of trying to "dominate" me. Or anyone else for that matter. It's just not something we even think about. We think only of fairness, and genuine love and caring for each other and truly interesting, positive, creative, inspiring life pursuits. Sure, we enjoy owning companies, even having maids, lawncare guys, etc. and helping others have jobs, etc. But we don't think of ourselves as "dominating" them or being better than them. Of course, I'm not trying to date on here. After all, let's face it, I realize I may be the only person on here who is like me in moral integrity and character. And I'm holding out for a perfect match in romance.
I say this only so prospective servants will better understand who they will be serving.
I won't even hide that I have a servant. Why should I? There is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of either being or having a respectable servant. And I will never let them do, nor do anything myself that I would be embarrassed or ashamed about, nor would I do anything that anyone would find disturbing. Lots of my friends have employees, domestic and otherwise. I have before as well. But I think a voluntary servant is the best possible thing, because they truly enjoy what they do. It's not just a job. It's more fun. And creates a close bond of lifelong friendship.
I've also reasoned, since I really do want to find a servant anyway, why not let my ad also be a beacon of light to others who might want "clean up their act" and change their love of serving into a pure and perfectly respectable thing that they don't have to hide from their family anymore.
"Bondage" and "submission" doesn't have to be something dark or ugly or shameful or abusive. A servant of Christ for instance is a wonderful, care free life. And there needn't be whips or real chains and shackles or abusiveness to force someone. Only the invisible chains of admiration and respect and a genuine inner enjoyment of serving.
So in seeking a servant here, as long as the individual is willing to completely eliminate from their lives behaviors, etc. I don't allow...there is no reason they can't be an excellent servant to me. And they'll probably be happier for doing so in the long run. After all, most who've replied so far say they are tired of the dirty side of things here. And let's face it, we shouldn't be surprised when people who waste their lives being dirty and manipulative in some ways, eventually become dirty and manipulative in many other ways.
Let my ad be clear. I don't want such people in my life at all. The police and others will ensure that for me, so someone would have to be foolish to bother deceiving their way in...
I realize what I seek may not be the norm here. But maybe it should be. Regardless, I know that it is here. A smaller pocket of completely honest, decent people of integrity and gentility among the rest. Just as completely honest, decent people of true integrity are a smaller subset of society as a whole.
If you have a problem with this, please simply ignore me knowing that everyone is allowed to use a public forum for whatever they wish. And know I wish you only the best in whatever you use it for.
For instance: Some people use photography to create porn. Others (like me) use it only to capture innocent, blissful home movies and snapshots. Some play sports to live dangerously and for adrenaline rushes. I play them purely for fun with family and friends. We all make life choices for ourselves. These are mine. And this is my ad. You do not need to read or acknowledge it if it doesn't interest you completely. But why bother telling me...? I'm sure you already know I won't care, right...?
Please respect my choices and everyone else's here. Do not waste time contacting me if your choices differ from mine in the significant ways I've clearly stated. I promise not to contact you, if so, either. That's only fair, right?
I only seek quality, honest people who enjoy always being good. Like me, they likely stumbled on this whole thing and signed up out of curiosity. I'm only interested in completely respectable, regular servant or voluntary slave types to be a trusted/trustworthy platonic friend to a beautiful woman.
After all, one of the greatest books in history states: "The greatest among you, shall be as a servant." (Bonus points to those who personally know who said this.) If this is someone you are able and would like to emulate, please respond.
Tell me what your life is like now, what area you live in, how you see yourself fulfilling this position practically, in real life. Including specific duties, etc. and a general description of your outside job/career, etc. As well as a general description of your philosophy and view on the most important things in life in general.
Thanks!
Unfortunately, if you can't do so in your first email though... I am no longer able to even acknowledge it. After being a member here only one day, I had more wonderful responses than I expected or need. I don't have time to respond to those who aren't what I seek. So anyone further will have to really stand out for me to respond. Those who've already answered with full respect (and the few additional ones in the weeks ahead who are able to catch my eye) with polite, complete responses that greatly interest me, are the only ones I can give my time to now.
Unfortunately, as all honest people here know, a few idiots have already ruined it for anyone else so I no longer feel obligated to reply to everyone. Normally, I would be that polite. But it's great that I can't anymore really, since it saves me time! (Always look for the silver lining...)
Again, I ask you to please respect this and know that I wish everyone the best in their own search. I know what I seek can't be the right match for everyone. But if you're honest, patient, polite, respectful and reasonably persistent... I know we all can find what we're looking for...
It may interest you further to know that a particularly wonderful applicant has suggested other applicants might enjoy the book "A Royal Duty" by Paul Burrell, a devoted real life servant to England's Lady Di. He feels it explains in more detail the relationship and type of servant I seek. I haven't read it, so I don't know for certain. (But it would certainly be more accurate than a "BDSM" or similar book. Erase your mind of all of that, if you wish to respond to me.)
Someone else with a true servant's heart here wrote to tell me my requirements are...
"....the perfect description of an elf!"
So if you fit the description below, you may also contact me.
He describes an elf thus:
We are totally non-sexual work and chore servants--in your own words-"Platonic servants."
An elf is totally different from a human sub.
A 'sub' will frequently have a hidden sexual agenda and they are always aiming for 'playtime' and rewards. (SOMETHING I WON'T WASTE TIME ON)
An elf serves for the pure joy of service, because that is what they were created for.
Elves are 100% service oriented, non-sexual servants.
An elf feels honored to clean a castle spotlessly as well as do any other errands and chores.
An elf can be a very dear friend and confidant as well as a trusted and obedient servant.
Please know:
There are no "BDSM" interests listed in my profile at all, for a reason. I'm entirely uninterested. I don't even categorize them in "dislikes" or "hard limits" because I don't want even the mention of such things either in my profile or in my life. Again, simply ignore my ad if you seek those things.
If anyone messages me with even the slightest reference to their genitals or any sexual, abuse oriented or other "lifestyle" behavior, they'll simply be blocked without the courtesy of a response or a nanosecond of thought. lol
Yes, I expect you to live chastely around me, unless you're a married servant (it would be great to have a serving couple!). And if you want to tell me one time that you are honored to live chastely, fine. But beyond that, I don't want the matter even mentioned to me.
A few females have applied as well, and I love the idea of a personal maid servant to help me dress, etc. I won't be having a man servant do so. But please know, I don't allow lesbian behaviors around me any more than I allow bi- or homo- or hetero-sexual activity around me... There's no focus on sexuality or sexual behavior at all. So be fully accepting and in complete agreement with that before contacting me, or be respectful enough to not contact me. Again, nothing I state here will be negotiable. I want to save everyone time from futilely thinking it might be.
Please know I'm also not interested in much online communication either. Real life only....
Instructions are given above for writing a full response that will interest me and efficiently respect your time as well. Any message that does not follow and fulfill the instructions completely, can only be ignored.
If I do not respond, it means your message was not interesting enough to me for one reason or another. Try again if you'd like. I have too many responses already to respond further to anyone, no matter how sincere, whose first response does not interest me greatly. And no, I cannot take time to explain anything further. I trust you to submissively forgive me and understand.
I must say, it's strange how some think they deserve an explanation for why I'm here. And others are so deeply perverted they think everyone must be, so they seek a hidden vein of it in me. No. This is it. I wouldn't waste my time or yours being coy...
I've also had two guys bizarrely write to tell me I'm a "fake". Weird. Who would write all that I have and be a fake. How am I trying to fool anyone? That would be absurd. Oh, well. Sure, my posted photo is fuzzy. (Why would I want to post a clear one on a predominantly nutty website. Jiminy!)
Again, I'm only seeking real life only. So no long internet chit chat.... And I won't be telling you all about myself and my life before ever meeting. As long as we agree on the basics that I've listed here, that should be enough.
Trust me, I've already been warned about all the perverts on here who have no intention of going beyond their computer screen and saving up photos and information about people whose ads they fixate on. The whole idea is amusing in how sad and empty such a life must be. But who wants to cater to them? Let them find the others who spend their lives hiding behind a computer with their closet fixations and fetishes. lol
If you need to talk to someone for weeks or more before meeting them, find someone who would like to do so with you.
I can understand why someone would be afraid to meet some of the people here without a long getting-to-know-you phase. But someone with an ad like mine??? Seriously...
Anyway...
Have fun everyone! And be safe...
Treat yourself and others with deep respect and love, and you can never go wrong....
I would like to say: "Don't do anything that I wouldn't do..."
But that would "shackle" and irk most of you to no end! lol
Of course, I'm only seeking those who happily wish such invisible "shackles"...
Hmm...perhaps like Snow White and the Seven Dwarves?
See, I can have a sense of humor and overlook what most of you are doing. Even if I think it's dumb, gross, etc. So I'm sure all of you can do the same with me...
After all, I'm apparently the oddball here. Which is funny in it's irony, isn't it....
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Is touched by how many polite, caring servant/slaves and even a few Dom/Domme's have responded to my ad. Even many who do not seek a pure, platonic servant role have written with polite, respectful suggestions of where I might find one, or apologies for not knowing how to help but wishing me luck.
What an amazingly respectful bunch...
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If you already have my Yahoo IM, stay in touch there rather than here now.
If you don't, ask for it!
I know there is one person in particular I haven't given it to yet that I meant to, but all of the names on here swim together when you get too many responses, and I can't "find" him in the sea of emails yet! So help me out by contacting me, k? I trust you know who you are by the great conversation we had. |
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I'm stepping back and taking a break from the hectic pace of sorting through the great responses. I do intend on talking personally with and meeting all of the great locals and that really stand out long distant servants...sometime within a week of their first responding hopefully. But it's impossible to talk with any real degree of quality with more than a few at a time. And as we all know, it's impossible to know who is the best fit before meeting in person. So please bear with me while I try to give everyone who is sincere the respect and consideration they deserve. I was going to joke, "First come, first serve." but then realized many on here will like that too much in ways I don't mean it! Ha!
Basically, if I've already exchanged meaningful contact with you, I do intend on continuing... But please give me a few days to get back to you if need be, or say hi to prompt me earlier. I can only talk to so many at once. And want to be polite to everyone who is so to me.
Thanks!
And thank you to the two wonderful people who sent me suggestions of tamer servant search sites. Appareciate knowing all the tamest ones out there. If a servant would like to create one for me, I'd love to be the poster girl for pure servanthood and voluntary slavery! |
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Ok, this is funny. I know I'm "naive to evil" and a goody two shoe and I like being that way. But I didn't expect some of the ads of even those whose messages responses I love to upset me so much. Fortunately, some have ads as clean as mine, and I guess I expected that anyone who responded to me would be similar. I figured I could blot out the few that might not be. But some have really upset me.
Is there a website where I can still find what I seek but that doesn't have all the perversion and abuse? If so, let me know. There are many here who know more about this so called "world" than I do.
I wish there was an online service that was more "vanilla" (as some have called it) so that I don't have to read perverted profiles at all. They actually make me want to vomit. I can ignore entirely the ads on the right side of the page, by adjusting my page view so they aren't visible. But as I'm going through the list of great emails I've received, I'm finding that when I read a profile that has any perverted or sexual material in it, I"m grossed out and at times even a bit scared to meet someone who would do such things. Even when they tell me that they prefer and that they're happy not to have to do them. Well, why would they be open to them in the first place? I'm probably going to have to go with the few who don't have any of that on their profiles, or at least require everyone who does to remove all of it if they want to serve me, BEFORE even contacting me. Or maybe I need a couple days just to put it in perspective so it's not upsetting me so much. |
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