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There are different opinions on what a Master/Slave relationship is and how to live it. Many people will not agree with my methods and views, which is fine. However, this is what works best for me. I am always learning and I still consider myself a student of the lifestyle regardless of my years. I am a firm believer that a Man is the Master of his domain and that the woman is there to serve in a supportive role. She is there to care for him in all things HE requires: to maintain HIS household, to raise HIS children, to be HIS companion, to sooth HIS worries, to warm HIS bed at night, to obey HIS wishes, to be HIS property.

I am not one to simply beat the crap out of someone simply because I can since I own them. Discipline is not spanking, whipping, or flogging someone. That is punishment. Discipline is in itself the ability for one to focus and concentrate on performing the tasks given, to perform those tasks flawlessly, to perfection. That takes more mental strength and thought than it does the physical aspect of performing the task sometimes. Through physical punishment and positive reinforcement comes this kind of discipline.

Thus, the mind is the key for me. Through the mind, my slave will eventually give me her heart and soul. The body is merely a shell, a vessel for my physical pleasure. If I do not have the mind of my slave then the physical side of things will not matter. The mind is what produces the "goose bumps" from my gentle caress or my bare hand spanking her bottom. The mind is what produces the "butterflies in the stomach" when I look into her eyes before I penetrate her or unleash my whip on her back. The mind is what truly produces these kinds of sensations far more than the physical. Through the mind, I can have her heart and soul. That is what pleases me the most. Those are the ultimate of gifts. Those are what I will ultimately posses.

Communication and honesty is of the utmost importance to me. I will always be honest and communicate my desires to my slave. I expect nothing less from her. If she has any doubts or questions about what I require of her, she should never be afraid to express them. Fear and uncertainty are not grounds for punishment. It means that I have not done a well enough job in explaining what I expect from her. Therefore, it is her duty to request clarification from me so I may do a better job in the future. Like her, I am only human and not perfect.

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10/29/2009 12:05:49 AM

I have been a member of this site off and on for several years.  Since I’ve returned I have been sorely disappointed in the amount of fakes/scammers that seem to have taken over this site.  I do a fair amount of browsing of profiles and have come up with my own little list of how to tell a scammer.  This is meant to be funny, but also what I’ve actually encountered on here and other sites, so they ARE true.  If you’d like to add one of your own experiences feel free to drop me a note and I’ll try to include it.  So to start my top ten list off:

They might be a fake/scammer if….

10) They are obviously using a picture taken from the internet;

09) They need money because their Boss/Boyfriend/Brother/Father/(Insert person here) is blackmailing them;

08) Their profile picture can be found on three other profiles of other people in different parts of the country/world;

07) They list themselves as a slave but under their dislikes are all the Lifestyle aspects;

06) Their ethnicity is listed as “Native American,” their picture is of a blond haired, blue eyed “California” looking person in a swimsuit;

05) Their grammar would make a third grader look like Shakespeare;

04) Profile Height is either 2’ 3” or 7’ 10”;

03) Profile weight is listed as 39lbs.

02) They list themselves as living in your state but the “Distance” has them living 1831 miles from you;


And the number one reason they might be a fake/scammer

01) Their profile has them listed as living in Los Angeles…Minnesota.

Hope you enjoyed my little list.  Feel free to comment.


10/20/2009 1:49:22 AM
A few things to consider before contacting me:

1) If your profile has only a few short sentences, make sure you right more than just "HI" and a few short sentences;
2) If you're seeking "Phone Fantasies" try a 900 number, there are plenty out there. Don't waste my time;
3) If you have a picture posted on your profile, make sure you can prove the picture is of YOU, it's to easy to pull one from the Internet;
4) I am here to find a real person, not interested in "erotic emails," "Telephone fantasies," or "Video fantasies."  I will exchange a few emails, then we will talk by telephone and ultimately meet face to face.  If that is not what you're seeking then don't waste my time;
5) If you say you will write back after we've exchanged a few emails, then do it.  Everyone's life is busy and if you can log on to this site everyday yet not write that you will respond soon, it's simply disrespectful, regardless of the lifestyle.

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sabrianadelta
 
 Age: 36
  Alabama