I am a socially awkward mentally ill nerdy nonbinary kinky person.
My ideal first date would be going out for tacos (or thai or indian food or pizza or omg anything i love food so much) and then nerding out about various esoteric special interests.
I don’t always have as much time as I would like to devote to romance as I am a graduate student. My goal is to make the world even a little less terrible. I know I can’t solve most problems but I want to try even if my change is ultimately insignificant.
I am a sub but I definitely have switch tendencies. My favorite dominants are ones who give me a sense of safety and grounding but aren’t afraid of treating me roughly. People who speak soothingly while saying and doing incredibly cruel things to me are hot.
People mostly see me as a woman despite my identity. I feel mostly drawn towards men especially men who seem protective (I’ve ended up calling most guys I’ve dated daddy O_O) but I have also happily dated women. (I haven’t refered to them as mom though it’s weird I just really have a thing for dads.)
I’m hoping to connect to the scene in New York and make some friends. I may be a nerd but online relationships don’t really do it for me. Please don’t be afraid to message me if you want to be friends. I would love to have some friends to go to munches with so don’t be afraid to say hi.
