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hypnoblonde

I am a hypnotherapist... online I "play" an evil hypnoDomme...maybe not so evil. .
In the past five years I have learned much in regards to D/s
relationships and my own needs.

Of course the basis of the relationship.love, respect, trust.

D/s is one of the very basics in all relationships, most just don't
realize it and come to terms with some kind of balance. Hence so many
out here looking for balance and unfortunately a partner also seeking
his/her own balance elsewhere (maybe here too). I am seeing that this
type of relationship and with hypnosis allows for an intimacy that many
are seeking.

I have come to realize that I must honor both my Dominant side and my
submissive side. I also realize that my ideal partner will be similar. ( I do tend to be attracted to more the dominant men than the submissive men)
That we both are active in the world assisting in bringing light to the
world thru US. In our private life a matter of assisting each other
honor the sub side. Perhaps a fun way of letting the O/other know that
it is time. Making a game of this. but in every sense is real. real
submitting, real dominating. And heaven forbid BOTH have that need at
the same time.but that can be fun too. With both of us having fantasies
to be fulfilled on both ends of the spectrum. Double the possibilities.I do enjoy creative strong, intelligent men.

I am new to this an by the interests list it is very obvious that I have little experience in many things so common to those who have lived the lifestyle in real life... My curiousities are real and after experiencing them I will know better how I feel about these things and if they add dimension to my life or not..

The best to all those seeking... it is in this seeking and moving forward we realize we are alive and not stagnant and dead of spirit.

Now available The Sensual Submissive Garden, a hypnotic trance to honor your sub side..

9/13/2008 12:45:33 PM
I want to thank everyone here.  The "one" I have manifested for has found me.  I can't thank all of you enough for more than enough material for "that" chapter of the book I have in me.... I wish for all to find the satisfactions in life to bring the joy and peace to your days.
BlondeCHt
2/14/2007 1:33:46 PM
Happy Valentine's Day to ALL.........I don't get it... I guess some people have a problem with rejection and need the last word... I kindly got back to someone with the auto reply, and I do believe that is the courteous thing to do, and I get a note telling me he is blocking me.... does he think I will be approaching him after telling him I am not interested.... I just dont understand that behavior... oh well...it takes all kinds..
12/27/2006 12:50:29 PM
I do get a chuckle from seeing notes by guys that say that after they message someone the least the woman can do is have common courtesy to message back saying they arent interested... Over the past couple weeks I sent nice messages to these "considerate" men and it was interesting that I did not get one response.... that is calling the kettle black. 
8/31/2006 7:47:13 AM
Do dominants think that the proper way to look in a photo is with a frown on their face or arms crossed in that position that means they are "not approachable".  I surely would not want to submit to anyone who cant smile or is unapproachable.  My dear friend on here..hypnobdsm..is a dominant and I dont believe I have seen a frown or mean look on his face and never with arms crossed.  Now He is a true dominant and humble too... so many have their egos right out front... to you guys.. get a clue. and to those who are real like hypnobdsm..good luck on your paths...
8/19/2006 11:32:40 AM

August 19, 2006
Interesting how so many talk of respect, trust and honesty... my focus now is on the respect... I feel respect is earned and only then will I use an honorific in addressing them. It is certainly not reasonable to call ANYONE "sir" or "master" or "lord" or any other honorific until EARNED.

8/15/2006 4:29:57 PM
August 15, 2006... interesting... I am finding the dominants that I am attracted to have things like this on their profile....
". While I may be the dominant, my submissive directs my actions through her needs and her responses to what I am doing."
and
"

A Dominant is the centre of a submissive's universe, because she thinks so, not because He does."



8/1/2006 7:01:56 AM
August 1, 2006 Just amusing myself a bit... as I have read thru profiles here for awhile...it continues to amaze me how so many confuse dominate and dominant.... one being the verb - dominate and the other a noun-dominant... If one does not even know the difference there how can they even begin to recognize the subtlties in relationships... hmmmm...
7/12/2006 9:52:53 AM
July 12, 2006
Interesting.  Met my first man from here.. nice man.. and yes I would meet with him again...
What is more interesting is that ordinarily this is not the type of site I would go to, not even sure how I came upon this site.  Once here I did read thru a lot of profiles.  I am a people watcher and empath.  So many are rather transparent and that does make it easier for me.  I am a hypnotherapist but also an astrologer.  Yesterday I got a call from a woman who was very upset and wanted an astrological reading.. She went on to tell me that this husband of hers, that she met in church and has been married four years to him is saying that she is his sex slave and he wants her to dress in leather all the time. Then I realized I have been here and reading profiles to better understand and do this reading for her... Thank you all for sharing your profiles with me.
7/10/2006 10:21:02 AM
July 10, 2006 It always amazes me when I see these cutsey nicks and they have a blank profile and no picture what is going on with them.  Do they have no creativity in them to write anything.  Perhaps their minds are a bit blank.. not my type of dom or sub. The more creative the more possibilities for sensuality.. imho.
7/8/2006 9:44:52 AM
July 8, 2006 Am seeing that there are interesting men here. Finding I am more attracted to the dominants and especially those with the vanilla interests similar to my own.  Basically I am a healer and use hypnosis and astrology in what I do.  I use energy but not structured as in Reiki or some other energy styles. A dominant that can help grow me in these areas would be wonderful. . but please NO EGOS.  As one profile stated about being dominant from the core being and not from the ego.
7/3/2006 9:19:15 PM
it has been an interesting week here..... watching...reading profiles... I always realized that D/s did not have a single definition, that it is as different as all the combinations of people interested in and living this lifestyle as they call it. When two people "fit" together then this lifestyle can allow for a great intimacy.
Mistress4Submale
 
 Age: 20
 Melbourne, Australia